how so? i mean, assuming he's ok with jerking off in his workplace and can do so discreetly enough that no one is the wiser (especially this woman; the point is for this to not turn into a penthouse letter—or y'know, a sexual harassment suit), he an relieve his tension without involving anyone else, until he's over…

yes, this exactly!! (also, i so feel you on the cry-fests and awkward/lengthy friend talks. and horribly misspelled -thankfully- drunken texts confessing to and apologizing for said feelings......yeaaah)

I think the difference here is that it was clearly all in his head; its not like they were flirting/she was egging him on somehow. The woman had no idea of his feelings towards her, which is a credit to his restraint (or her compartmentalizing/looking the other way subconsciously) so aside from whatever mental strain…

omg isn't it HUGE? i mean idk if he was fluffing it somehow (while staying flaccid?) behind the scenes, but I was a bit intimidated. but his thighs are lovely...i'll be in my bunk

you injected the skrill-word into an otherwise cute fest?!....shame. but not too much, cos i'm laughing too :)

I had this as a kid!! it was sucky, but the scarlet fever that came afterwards was worse. ahh, childhood, the germ factory years

sex with ladies ftw! (i just like everything you're saying here)

since moving to San Francisco a month ago from growing up near NYC/college in Philly, I've actually be surprised by how fast the older natives talk here. Not just fast, but like, only-say-the-beginning-part-of-words fast, just to get to the end of the sentence/start a new thought in the middle fast. The black accent…

sorry this is off-topic but this is as good a time as any to see if its what i think it is eaglton valet yes! its <*a href=" **LINK GOES HERE** "> **whatever you want to call it <*/a> but without the asterisks in the carrots. Had to see if my old Livejournal code knowledge still applies :)

are these redhead books the coffee table, huge glossy photographs kind by any chance? *drool*

i dated someone like this too! weirdly enough, in pretty much the same combinations (reddish brown pubes but black chest hair/happy trail, and then ALL THE COLORS TOGETHER on his leg and head hair) I loved documenting this (also an excuse to crawl all over him) but i am with blackeyedme in the ginger lovin' club.

i second the bacon, all the way. and cheesecake. and fancy stuffed artichokes, and pie, and bubble teas....actually this is a pretty good excuse to eat all the things i couldn't justify the expense of when the world wasn't ending.

Yeah I do think that being so obviously mixed has helped me in situations like these, (and making sure to learn a couple of words of the main language wherever I visit). "'Kurdish bastard' " though, jesus christ. those are the kinds of situations that just make me laugh incredulously, so I don't commence with the…

they do! for some reason its a polarizing issue. this was a very thoughtful and great response, thanks. And I can totally see, (and sort of agree with) your thinking that nudity is always sexual. Its sort of titillating. But I also think the reason why its so titillating is because there's something fucked up within…

lol, i'm sorry but its not "on par" with anything. it is a derogatory word that no one should use, but i'm really sick of the whole "this is as bad as racism!" thing, because first of all, its not, and second of all, terrible things should not be compared to each other because its all bad. god, why is that so hard…

yes! one of my favorite movies as a kid. she's such a badass

oil-based lotion and q-tips. gahh leaving masacra on all night is like waking up with razors in your eyeballs (usually the razor-feeling is happening anyway because if i'm wearing mascara and passing out with it on, there will definitely be a hangover in the morning).

you're getting great advice, but I do kind of want to say: definitely don't ignore your urges, but if you do pick someone casually, make sure you pick them because you like what they're about. I know it sounds like a no-brainer, but for me personally (after watching probably waaay too much of teh pr0n) the urge was to…

i was maybe basing the "super hostile" comment on the replies you were giving to everyone (including me) who has disagreed with you. Which, as you say, is really just frustration because nobody could get past the (snide, sarcastic, and sort of condescending) way you expressed your opinion, and actually answer your…

ah man, definitely recognizably black :/ (never thought i'd have to make a slantmouth at that sentence.) thanks for the info, at least i'm forewarned/armed!