Okay, so I wasn’t crazy thinking she was wearing a wig. The first couple of episodes I was firmly in the “Yep, that’s a wig” camp. But by the end I wasn’t sure.

I may have yelled, “Yes! He’s dead!” when they showed Perry’s body on the stairs. God that was satisfying, especially after watching the women try to fight him off and stop him from hurting Celeste more. That scene made me cry. I wasn’t expecting that.

I like sex, but never seem to be able to keep a relationship. and wouldn’t mind doing something similar if only to have some companionship.

Nice! I like that one.

Oh, yes I agree. But a quote from the article was, “Why don’t you have ID? Are you here illegally?” Which seemed to be the police officers “excuse” for why he thought she would be walking around without an ID. Because saying “You’re brown” isn’t quite acceptable yet. Like everyone who walks around without ID is…

You wring the washcloth out and stand on a bath mat. I maybe get a little more water on the floor than when I’m getting out of the shower. Luckily, we are all free to wash - or not wash- as we see fit.

What the hell? They thought she was an illegal immigrant because she was walking around without ID? THAT is how they determine such things? Fuck them all.

Sponge bath route.

It came up years ago with some co-workers (yes, we had very inappropriate conversations some times; this one wasn’t even the worst). And one of them said he didn’t shower every day, but he did wash down the undercarriage, which he then explained as “everything that is under something else, body-wise, where sweat can…

It is the best thing. And you can just throw it in the washer! But if you’re lazy, they’re super cheap anyway...

That’s why I call it the undercarriage, because feet need a wipe down too. It’s more descriptive.

I do the same. I have one of those Salux washclothes they use at Korean spas, and I love to use it. Exfoliating feels so good! That being said, I do not shower every day. Usually every other depending on the state of my hair. On the off days, I just wipe down the undercarriage - which is what I call tits, pits,…

My mom knew a lot of my friends’ parents because I grew up and went to school in a large town/small city. People tended to stay put, so the kids my mom went to school with had kids I went to school with.

I don’t have kids, but I do live in a neighborhood full of them. And it makes my heart happy that a lot of parents let their kids ride their bikes to the park and play out front or at the school playground By. Them. Selves.* I keep an eye out and make sure they seem to be okay when I’m walking through the…

I felt a little bad when she stayed with my mom for 3 weeks when I went on vacation several years ago. My mom said that she wouldn’t even sit on the same couch as her for the first week and a half. By the end of the 3 weeks she would finally sit on the other end of the couch with her. All my mom wanted was to have…

I’m also a single lady in her 40s...I finally got my KitchenAid stand mixer a few years ago as my fee for doing a friend’s divorce. It was totally worth it.

My cat loves me and only me. And it makes me sooooooo happy! She has to be in the same room with me. There is no going to the bathroom by myself - she may be sleeping on the couch, but as soon as I head to the bathroom, she is up following me. She then lies on the bathmat until I am finished what ever I am doing. …

I’ve always thought it would be funny to dance to The Beatles When I’m 64 as my first wedding dance. It seems appropriate.

My cousin and his wife danced their first dance to Poison’s Every Rose Has Its Thorn. They had a very tumultuous relationship that ended in divorce 25 years later. I was 14 or so when they got married, and even I recognized how fucked up, yet appropriate, it was that they danced to that.

I believe in an earlier piece about Emily Shire’s article, someone stated they were a friend of Emily’s. I think it is Zukka.