lol no that's not what this is

I'm not even married nor do I have kids, but orgasms for me take a lot of time and effort. My boyfriend is willing to put the time and effort in, but sometimes I'm not and just want to rub my naked parts against his. It's like having chips and knowing they would be better with dip, but going to the store to get the…

I'm a man. I've been having sex pretty consistently for the past 12 years of my life. I've had many many orgasms both partner induced and self induced and I can tell you flat out that me not having an orgasm with my partner on a semi regular basis is really nbd at all. We do it on a very consistent basis so if in any…

Oh, I didn't mean that in a condescending way to anybody but my silly younger self. I think everybody is different. I just think I was lying to myself back then. What I meant was when I was saying, "I'm totally fine with not having an orgasm!" I wasn't really....all the time. I do think sexual encounters can be fine…

Well, I think it's more accurate to say that the idea that women's pleasure isn't as important as men's pleasure is damaging, and at the same time, the idea that orgasm is the be-all, end-all, only indicator of sexual fulfillment (for men or women) is damaging.

I don't orgasm from P-in-V intercourse. At all. I find it boring. I also find cunnilingus boring. No, it's not my husband's fault. We've tried many ways to make it enjoyable. I just can't get off from it.

I find it really frustrating when people invalidate the idea that sex without orgasm can be genuinely enjoyable. The best sex I've ever had was orgasm-less. Some people actually just are more interested in intimacy and all that shit. Everyone is different.

Yes. It isn't exactly a tragedy if it doesn't happen; sex feels good in and of itself, with or without. But it's a lot better if it does happen!

Yep. I have kids. I will take 1o-15 minutes of sex, any sex, once or twice a week at 6 am before my kids are up, over no sex at all. Orgasm would be great! But I have a toddler and a baby and that shit is just not happening very often. But I still want to have sex with my husband, because 1) it's enjoyable and 2) we…

Oh look another person who thinks my sex life is really secretly "frustrating and depressing" and I'm just kidding myself when I claim I am happy and satisfied. Surely I have never encountered one of you before! (eyeroll)

How am I judging? I have never orgasmed from sex and I've been having sex for ten years. Really. I can't pretend to be OK with it. Putting this idea out there that women as a group don't need orgasms to be satisfied sexually (or need them less than men) is very damaging.

Uh, yes. That is actually a big thing that we fought for. A rise in women's rights is directly correlated with women shortening their hemlines. Sexual liberation was, of course, taken advantage of by the patriarchy (Playboy, etc.) but most female pop stars in this day and age have 100% control over their image (with…

Considering how bad she is at dealing with the issues of women of color, I would say that Miley Cyrus is already pretty good at feminism.

I'm sorry, so a pop star just came out and gave big love to feminism and the feminists just shut her down.

Why are we surprised women shy away from this label again?

What I love about this image is that it has the markings of transparency.

I hope you were. I would hope that most people are sensible enough to depend on the person behind the camera to help the kitten.

Tax breaks, social security, medicare and medical benefits, property rights, protection of shared assets, legal protection of any offspring. The legal stuff that marriage is REALLY about.

Legal and tax advantages, big party, and to be honest I just like the idea of a codified, witnessed commitment.

It was surprisingly tame and kind of dated. Going to hell just isn't as shocking as it used to be.

This irritates me. I work from home. I have a full time job with a real company; I don't sell 31 bags or jewelry "in my spare time". I'm a telecommuter and my kids go to daycare while I work. Work at home mom is how I define myself. Trying to appropriate this term for SAHMs just serves to further muddy the waters.