Yeah, I've honestly had decent luck on Tinder but only after weeding out TONS of creeps. My advice (if you're looking for a relationship) is be very careful who you go on a date with, be firm that you're looking to date NOT fuck, and do not engage in sexual activity until you feel you know them as a person. If you're…

Good for you! That moment when you first stand up for yourself in bed is like a major milestone in becoming a woman.

To be completely honest I think I might not be the best person to ask because I believe I'm outside the norm.

Awww I'm so glad you found your man! I feel like an internet dating survivor haha

Only like...50% creeps and freaks haha

He definitely does. We discussed it at length because we both saw it as a major issue. Basically we both came to the conclusion that our feelings were already so strong that the "what if" feeling if we walked away now would be too awful.

I think that your thought about it being weird that you haven't met someone the old fashioned way is common but incorrect. Every single mid 20s person I know is using Tinder or OkCupid. It's become the new "met at a bar" scenario.

Honestly, I worry too much too and was literally going to end this relationship but then we discussed it and decided that both of us have never met another person we connect with on this level and neither of us could bear the thought of walking away over a future hypothetical. Knowing he was taking the plunge with me…

I just saw that you responded to my post as I was considering what to write to you! haha

That's actually really great advice about the therapist. Obviously we don't need it now but if we do get very serious and want to take a next step (literally years from now) we may want to do that.

Uh....this is definitely a scam. Is your friend someone that is normally vulnerable to these sorts of things? I seriously hate when I hear about internet scams. ugh! I hope you can talk some sense into her...try and find articles about people who were scammed in the same way and have her read them. This is the time…

My conservative self advises that the devil you know may be better than the devil you don't. However I spend my life avoiding the road less traveled so maybe ignore me.

It happens to the best of us. Treat it like a learning moment and never let it happen again. All it does is make the good ones (when you find them) shine that much brighter.

That's terrible. I'm sure you're scared but you survived it once and I trust you'll survive it again. Trust your instincts on it too. Doctors are quick to dismiss patients (especially women) and you deserve relief.

Sex on the Beach (I think...) even if the normal recipe doesn't call for it it would still be amazing.

I was going to say "I hope you tell them" but then I saw someone else had that comment covered haha

So I had previously written in asking for advice on what to do about a guy that I was seeing who ultimately wants different things in life. I had considered breaking it off because he knows he wants kids and I know I don't. Anyway, I made the irresponsible choice and dove in and we decided to make it official and move…

I made the declaration that I would not give a BJ until I was in a committed relationship with a guy that makes a solid effort to get me off every time we have any kind of sexual encounter. This promise to myself has led me to an amazing man who both genuinely cares that I orgasm and actually THANKS me (like "I want…

THE WORST! Also the worst is when I talk to sweet naive friends who BELIEVE it and have sex without a condom. Ugh....

haha you're probably right...I nearly dismissed the comment but then my confrontational side took over...too primal I guess