At least one scene where she dances/sings to an underground punk song demonstrating how cool and deep she is...but also broken.

That's because the female "protagonists" will only be as important and nuanced as is necessary for the story about a man.

You, and people like you regarding different pieces of media, are missing the point. We're not saying that men can't write media featuring women, but the main point is thatalmost every time women are featured in media in general, their characters are written from a man's point of view. Their characters constantly…

It's not just about safety. It's about comfort. Frankly I very much like being free from even the most minor kinds of sexual comments or 'catcalling' whilst I'm going for a piss. Yes, I know most men wouldn't do this, but enough catcall or come-on to women on the street that a significant proportion of these men…

I fucked the groundskeeper in the garden shed of the church next door to my house. He was hot in a Vincent D'Onofrio Don't Tell Mom the Babysitter's Dead kind of way. He was 6'4" and muscular but a little soft around the middle, with a hairy butt and a girthsome dick. He had thick hair and long eyelashes. He bent me…

So this is only gonna make sense to a small portion of people but...

I already posted about this once, but... I dated and fucked a guy who would stand up on the bed to switch positions. And that wasn't the weirdest part - he'd keep thrusting. He had a slight belly and serious sexing face, so he looked not unlike an angry bee with his dick as the stinger.

Was the storage unit for his collection of Jamiroquai hats?

I felt bad, but then I read "it was like being water boarded" and lost my shit

I really want to hear more about this one.

Post soul-crushing breakup, I briefly went out with a bald wannabe white rapper with a "home recording studio" in his closet and zebra print bedding. What's worse is that he was, well, a bit overweight and if he was on top when we had sex, not only would I feel like I was being crushed under his weight, but he would…

Dude, I wore that shit on my wedding day, and in all the pictures I look like a kidney bean.

Somebody needs to tell all of these people that Spanx just make them look like a zeppelin in a condom. TELL THEM. It's for their own good.

As the ACLU of Alabama's Executive Director Susan Watson points out, Alabama doesn't have a statewide public defender program, meaning fetuses can get a lawyer appointed with state money, but real live, already-born indigent human beings cannot.

They are probably wearing the wrong size or trying to use them to fit into clothes that don't fit anymore. You would not be able to see my Spanx and they work great for a lot of ppl. I see more ppl that could benefit from them than ppl who look like sausages. Different strokes for different folks. We see what we want…

I actually read somewhere (probably on the internet, which means it's definitely true) that prolonged wear of shaping garments like spanx can actually damage your internal organs. I'm assuming this isn't an issue for the casual wearer, but I guess wearing them all day every day can squish your business in bad ways!!…

Honestly in my experience they make a world of a difference. I KNOW I look a million times better in spanx because I have a tiny but unflattering pooch. But the thing with sororities is you can't call out one girl and tell her that she should wear spanx so you advise everyone to. Even girls with perfect bodies can…

I kinda felt the same way with the kind that's sorta like a half leotard; I'm not large I just wanted to be smoothed out. I felt like it made me boxy looking. I just bought another set of the thigh and butt ones, mostly because I have a bridesmaids dress that a smidge too small and i'm hoping it'll help to streamline…

Yeah, I know someone who wears them on occasion or at least used to when she went out. She's a big girl and they hold everything in place. While I can see the difference and she does look good they just look waaaaay too uncomfortable as hell. However, they make her feel better about how she looks.

I agree! When I'm getting all fancy, I always try on my dresses with my one pair of spanx (they are expensive!) and then usually opt to go spanx free. I don't quite know how to describe it. I feel like my natural curves and bumps etc look better to the perfectly smooth, tube effect. I feel like I look thinner without…