ohdeardeardear
:( Oh dear.
ohdeardeardear

My parents loaned me the money to start my own business and it changed my life. I refuse to feel bad about it and would never want to date someone who looked down on me for it.

As a smoker I can't abide other smokers who perpetuate the stereotype of the inconsiderate smoker. I promise we aren't all that person that smokes next to you without a care and then just throws their butt on the ground. :/

I'm kinda freaked that faked stories like these are going to take credibility away from the women who have already come forward.

It is noteworthy that she doesn't defend him. She just acknowledges that nothing happened to her at that time.

You know what I like about Raven's response? She clears the rumors about herself up, asks to be left out, and does not rush to defend him or refute any other women's claims (Ahem, cough cough, friends of Woody Allen).

It BAFFLES me that people are not constantly talking about Missy Elliott during these endless conversations about how Nicki Minaj is the only female rapper in the history of music. "Phone before you come, I need to shave my chocha" may be the greatest line ever written.

Anyone who thinks PATRICK SWAYZE was at any point hotter than BRAD PITT is just...

People who also need to be chastised: Women who think their bag also needs a seat. Bitch that chinatown frauda can go in your lap.

for someone just telling someone else they have a shitty attitude, you have the shittiest attitude i have ever seen. like, what is wrong with you? every comment i have read from you has been elitist, arrogant, rude and unhelpful. you seem extremely judgmental, and from what i can see of your conversation with oh dear,

I think people say average, but mean mode. The most occurring size range is 12-14.

I was a thin, pretty person for most of my life, and you're right. I did internalize the idea that I was not a real woman because I did not have curves. Why do my feelings about this matter less because I was 'attractive'? I had IBS and could not gain weight. I weighed 98 lbs for most of my life because my body didn't

32 is way too old to be a massive hipster. (You can have unconventional interests without being a hipster.) And supporting equality for women is a baseline.

I think his head's a little big.

When people are late all the time.

"Also, as a feminist I find it quite hard to get along with people who don't have a minimal amount of critical thinking."

Thank you! I only ever hear "real women" used to refer to chubby (don't mean chubby negatively) or very thick and curvaceous women. It's always a dig against skinny women.

I'm naturally thin - not very curvy. The "real women have curves" thing genuinely hurt my feelings when I first heard it. I understand what you are saying but I'm obviously not the only person that took it personally - I'm not playing dumb - I'm just another self-conscious woman.

About the reification of hipsters, just look up anything about detournement, recuperation, etc. There are so many neckbeards in my "alternative" neck of the woods it's a health hazard (all the disgusting hair I mean).

no one is playing stupid. People do recognize the phrase for what it is. Body shaming anyone is not ok. Hence the "we're all real."