I'm a black woman and I'm sure I'll catch hell for this but my experiences with racism vs sexism seem to dictate that I am black first and a woman second. Let's be honest, on the discrimination hierarchy, no matter where you put a black man and a white woman, a black woman gets more shit than both of them.

@salmon.villa: I can't believe you're the first person to suggest living somewhere else. I don't understand why these people *had* to live in nyc. I know plenty of people who opted to live elsewhere until they were financially better off and ready to move to NYC.

@nellicat: okay, seriously, how are you one of the few people to point out that the issue isn't about blogging about the intimate details of one's life, it's about involving other people in that who don't want to be?

Yeah, I'm also wondering what the legal ramifications are this when it comes to trial. Can these really be brought into evidence to point out the propensity?

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I was on Team Nerd Herd (several different teams/activities) and there's no way I'd want a video camera recording the shit that went down.

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If you have to defer raising your kids to your kids, maybe you should stop having kids. Or if you can't do that, stop fucking. Please. Stop. Fucking.

I saw this and have been telling my friends about it for several weeks. The part where he was basically claiming that him touching girls and women inappropriately was tantamount to a pap smear was especially fucked up.

I call shenanigans. Citibank caps it at one payment every 5 days.

@Joggingspillsmymartini: FMLA?

I say this as a woman with a chronic illness/disability:

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Wait, has Ashton Kutcher's punk the paparazzi show been canceled yet? If no, I call Ashtonigans.

Those of you who are saying he just needs love and a stern talking to:

So, how much of an advance is she getting for her book deal?

I have a feeling that the FLDS case isn't going to stick. It seems quite possibly that this 16-year-old doesn't exist and that the authorities made her up to get into the compound. Couple this with the fact that the AZ (?) branch's county sheriffs are all part of the sect and it is quite possibly that they can make…

I also think it's pretty funny that there are a lot of people down with this new protocol that are posting unnecessary comments in response to other people. And by "unnecessary" I mean, "doesn't contribute anything to the discussion one way or another."

Were there any people of color in this MTV thing?

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