It's not like employers are refusing to cover antibiotics because some slutty slut sluts are using it to clear up the clap! Women's health has always been treated differently. Several insurance policies I've had required I get separate insurance to cover anything related to my ladybits. There is no such precedent for…

I agree with this whole heartedly. it seems like a lot of people are expecting her to just wake up one day and be completely "better". It doesn't really work that way. It's going to take her a lifetime to recover. And she will sometimes make mistakes and falter. Every addict does. Its just most addicts are not under…

Agreed. They sound totally scripted. Its actually kind of unnerving.

All this guy does is make my stomach hurt. Over and over. Especially because I know my dad listens (and buys in) to this assface all the time.

You sound like a smart, well adjusted, capable partner with healthy reasonable attitudes about masturbation and porn. Unfortunately Leah is just not there yet. And given her history that seems like a lot to ask from her.

Can you elaborate on why you think its bullshit? I am seriously asking not snarking. Because I think it is completely valid to feel confused and hurt if your partner is not interested in sex (even while you lay next to him crying yourself to sleep and begging for some physical affection) but is still watching porn.…

Agreed! I don't get his appeal at all. I just think he is kinda weird looking.

This is amazing!

I wonder if maybe it is those kinds of experiences that have led her to these feelings. I know if it were me, parading around in a bikini for GQ would make me feel pretty bad about myself. Especially if I didn't have much choice in the matter because the people employing me had a different agenda then me. I could see…

I very much think that how you "feel" in an outfit is projected into the world. If you feel uncomfortable in an outfit often you will look uncomfortable. If you feel confident you will look confident. People pick up on that kind of stuff. I don't necessarily think that feeling or looking slutty is the problem but more…

Its true. Some people are complete assholes.

When I hear "so long as its healthy" I don't immediately think about disabilities. You can be "healthy" and have a disability. I think of a baby being born very ill and immediately dying or something horrible like that. No one wants to go through that.

I am half irish half italian. Whenever I tell people that they get all "whoa you must get CRAZY when you get mad..." Like I go around setting off car bombs and giving my frenemies lead boots all day long.

I've been lucky that my insurance company has paid or most of them. The few I have paid for out of pocket have been around $45 which is not to terrible for a good bra.

I was born with only one breast. When I was younger I asked my mom if maybe I was really a boy because some girls at school who saw me changing in the locker room said I wasn't a real girl. I was CONVINCED for a long time that they were right and I was a "hermaphrodite". I have since then come to learn a lot about…

I had a similar situation. I was born without a breast and nipple. When I was 18 I had them "evened out". But then in college I went up almost a cup and a half so they were again completely uneven. Skip ahead to 10 years later I had the implant removed and now I am a 36B on one side and completely flat chested on the…

Yeah that's how I read it as well. Which just shows exactly where her ethics stand.

Since they won't let it be taught in schools I think its time we start hanging out at malls and movie theaters explaining sex ed to anyone who will listen. Pamphlets, powerpoint, iphone apps, whatever it takes! Jesus Christ. Things are getting crazy around here.

Ugg I can't tell you how many days each week i am late to work because of this same snuggle thing with my kitty. She will spend an hour before my alarm goes off making trouble all over my bedroom and as soon as the alarm goes off she gets all sweet and cuddly. Cats are total a-holes!

I wear a shearling coat I got at the thrift store a few years ago. Its the warmest coat I have ever owned. Which is great because I live in a place where it is winter for like 9 months out of the year (ok that might be a slight exaggeration but still...)