You don't have to date them to get all the perks of this kind of grossness.

It's not just white guys. It's not just white guys. It's not just white guys.

You know who you should be blaming for this? White men. White men planted the seeds of "Asian men are weak and wimpy and not real MANLY MEN, so you should date a WHITE MAN because they're BETTER" a looooooong time ago.

It all come back to patriarchy and cultural imperialism.

Here's the thing darling, that you're not getting.

DrunkExPatWriter doesn't realize that Asians have taken the term "yellow fever" and turned it into a weapon to use against the creeps. It has etymological roots in the term "jungle fever" but it is being used against the privileged group e.g. "Ugh, this guy ok OkCupid has a serious case of yellow fever", whereas…

What about if I'm offended by the assumption that I'm submissive?

It is so rare, even living in Korea, that my boyfriend (white) and I (half-Korean) felt like we had seen a unicorn when we saw a white girl and her Korean bf a while back.

Oh yes. I'm half half, Korean and American, and I'm teaching in Korea now. I bagged myself a good one with the current bf (Irish, so cute, makes me soft boiled eggs and toast soldiers and milk tea for breakfast on Sundays) but there are still lots of expat dudes who try to be all of the creepy and be like "You're so…

It's a pretty common phrase, actually. I'd been using it since junior high school, sadly out of necessity.

Fat doesn't just come in one shape, dummy.

Doug Barry, you honestly need to stop trying to be the best male feminist ever, because honestly you suck at it. First with the Chris Brown article about how he was raped, and now all of your snark and sarcasm about Sam Claflin's body image issues? Stop. You're so bad at this.

But... my boyfriend wears the wooden bead bracelets I made for him... All 3...

I see. So more "Who are you and why are you taking my picture?"

I want an oven so bad, guys. Why is my apartment so small?!?!

In seriousness, your kids are adorable. Your girl, though, she looks kinda affronted that her picture is being taken. That is the face of "What is that thing you're pointing at me?"

I'm hiding under my desk right now.

Butts too.

I've never heard Grumpy Cat meow before and now I have and it's the best day ever!!!

The Bechdel Test has to have them talking about something other than men. Two named female characters that talk about something other than men.