Oh my goddess, I've been needing to get this humiliation story off of my chest for YEARS! I was having a great day. After several months without work, I had just left a job interview. It had gone very well. I stopped on the way home to pick up some groceries and as I was checking out with my WIC checks, the woman…

"Subjective perceptions" are literally the only way anyone can actually evaluate their own personal experiences. Humiliation itself is, by definition, a subjective perception.

and suicide. and my lady stabbing me.

The most humiliating moment in my life was going to the er with bleeding wrists and being laughed at by the doctor. Just scratches, she sneered. No reason to bother someone at that hour. It was late at night in a small town hospital. I still remember how blond her hair was and that her nails were perfect. It's weird.…

Yeah, I've had people tell me they suffer from Catholic guilt, Jewish guilt, Presbyterian guilt, Dutch Protestant guilt... I don't think it's the specific religious background that's the problem. Hell, maybe religion isn't even the problem. I think they suffer from Human guilt.

I wish there wasn't some weird truth in that.

I hate how, even years later, I can think back on an incident and immediately begin blushing from embarrassment. I always try to give myself a little pep talk about it. Why are you still so embarrassed by something that happened so long ago? Yet I am.

:(

"You touch a doorknob, and you don't want to get it inside your body." - Hickey

If you are having anal sex with eight of your friends, I am nothing but impressed.

Yes, there is a need to hit him.

It would help him - by teaching him that certain behavior (like advocating rape) is offensive and will get your ass kicked if you act out on it in public. It will teach him to keep his fucked up opinions to himself.

clearly you have never been beat or done a beating.

It's so obvious to me that you haven't spent enough time in cultures (and micro-cultures) in which what he is saying is undisputed, self-evident truth. You want to think it's mental illness, but it may very well not be. I know dozens of people like this: high-functioning, completely healthy people from paranoid,…

I'll reiterate: If he has a mental illness, it is not the job of strangers on the internet to diagnose it and prescribe the appropriate response. You know how sometimes tabloids will get a quack to diagnose a celebrity from afar? Yeah. That's sort of what you're doing here.

If he is mentally ill (And I don't know that he is mentally ill. I mean, I think all religious people are delusional and it's just a matter of degrees but they are still considered sane.) then the responsibility is on his parents - who are aware of this actions and support them, if only tacitly - to get him help…

Whew thank god I hate my family and have no friends.

That's how we do it and my wife is cool with it from all indications. Just gotta put in your mouth work first.

Way too speedy for the average woman to be able to have an orgasm through vaginal penetration alone.

That's totally fine if the two minutes of intercourse follows a really lengthy time period of stuff that's fun for me.