Oooo this is wonderful. One quick note, I wrote ghost girl and it looks like the handle is a little off. I’m “Notyourstolove” rather than “notyourlostlove.” Thank you!

Hello, Yes that would be wonderful. If you have an email you’re comfortable sharing here i can message you there.

well don’t feel too bad, you did the best you could at the time.

thanks. yeah, pretty intense. LOL.

Yeah, they aren’t cool. Trust me, that home was abusive in more ways than one. The real horror story is when my mother had a psychotic break and my alcoholic father decided instead of taking her to the hospital he needed to drink at the bar. He gave me a gun and told me to shoot her if she tried to kill me, then…

yeah this is actually one of my more digestible brushes with death lol

hahah thanks. yeah my mom and dad pretty much were characters straight out of a movie.

thanks. yeah i think that house had a lot of stories :)

thank you. yeah there’s some spooky shit in the corn :)

This happened when I was around seven and living in a small farm town outside of Chicago. Each night I’d go to bed and from the ceiling above me a little girl, in the shape of a shadow, would watch me. I recall she had this curly untamed hair and no facial features, but she definitely read as a little girl around my…

I don’t want to get into a competition about who had it worse here. Cool. You win. Congrats.

Trust me, it only shocks affluent people. Many poor people in the west know just how cruel this world can be. We don’t have a voice though.

We need to cover that nytimes aticle on the Face moms. They love devos. And they say stupid shit.

I wish I hadn’t been somewhat right about this.

Cute story. I’ll check back with you after he’s ghosted you and we’ll see where your renewed faith stands then.

You know, I’ve heard a lot about how advertising would benefit from hiring more people of different backgrounds. And I agree. However, as a woman who works in advertising, I’d add that you also have to listen to them. So many times I’ve commented that a photo lacks diversity or a campaign just might be read X…

Same. I love the idea in theory, but we’d go back to have a white male dominated awards show.

I have some thoughts on this, since I’m a woman who works in advertising.

Or, like an ex friend of mine, they act like you couldn’t possibly know what it’s like to be an “adult, with an adult life.” Sorry, getting married doesn’t automatically mean you’re mature.

Yeah, I mean there’s some weird internalized sexism on this. For instance, as shitty as Stassi and Kristin can be, they haven’t really been any worse than a James or a Jax, but they’ve basicaly been ostracized by the group. When James or Jax fucks up the whole gang basically just laughs it off. Additionally, whenever…