You used the service, but would not want to have a partner who provided this same service? Hypocritical, no?

Yes, that’s the point. I wrote it in another reply:

I think the point is that in Europe, there is no “identiy politics”, so “typically black stories” are a weird concept for us. They create a difference we don’t understand. As a German kid, I loved the Fresh Prince. I didn’t really care about the cast being black or not. It was just a very funny and witty show.

This is such an US-centric interpretation, though. The discourse around hair is very different here in Europe. What you call “natural” hair is not such a big deal here (or the discussion about “good hair”, etc). That doesn’t mean that Europe is not racist. But the racism is manifested in different areas, not so much…

I think the sexism and the objectification of women in this case is most explicit in the wording: “...have several [men] take a wife together”