notjomomma
notjomomma
notjomomma

"Ironic that the mother didn't heed that advice."

"Re-read what I wrote. You don't know if the girl said anything at all. All you have to go on is a passive aggressive video of a young adult ragging on a boy for bothering her girl."

I did not ask what the girl said or did or the manner with which she asserted (or not) herself. I asked how this girl should "deal" with this boy.

Nope. That boy's attention is unwanted and he needs to stop being a thirsty pest. You do not get to decide for another what they are allowed to be umcomfortable with. If the girl considers it harassment or stalking, then it is. Period.

"Women will tell you that sometimes no means try harder. A guy will never truly know unless he tries."

All right then. The daughter told this guy "no" several times and yet he persisted. How should she now "deal" with him without involving adults?

"Kind of interesting that we have to deal with the "rejected males." Why are males always the ones who have to be rejected? I would just like to hear more stories of women who were rejected by men and how they handled it."

Well, all the kid has to do is to stop harassing her. Boom, no more stalking = no more of being labeled as a stalker.

"Are you saying that awkward guys shouldn't try or are doomed to be alone? I mean... I'm pretty awkward and a pretty universally described as a nice guy that always finishes last."

That is a terrible attitude to have. Show some common courtesy to people and get some self-respect for yourself.

"And, especially considering that there are already plenty of kids available for adoption that need good families too?"

The adoption costs have something to do with it.

*sigh* OK, just for you:

She didn't "beg" anyone. She asked for help.

What a pretty kimono. Please be my friend.

That is amazing. I wonder what Amber Rose used, you can't see her tattoos at all.

I completely understand! I am an "old" though and did all sorts of things in my youth that I look back on and just shake my head at. I can't believe I was so naive then. Oh well, this lady is probably the same way.

Sure he can! He probably won't get too many takers though. :)

But then, if she did reach out to friends wouldn't you then turn around and say: