That's good, I'm happy for you! I thankfully don't have arm cleavage(what little I did have was fixed by a good well-sized bra) but I hope one day you can find a gorgeous comfy bra that fits and solves the cleavage problems. :)

I'm not even going to respond to the stupidity in this comment lol

We don't know her side, and yet everyone is more than happy to blame her vociferously for the entire situation. That bugs me, very, very much.

The fact remains that a colossal amount of reduced sexuality in a relationship comes from getting your needs met elsewhere.

Fucking amen. How hard is it to grasp this? I mean, fuck. It's just as likely that Girlfriend is terrified that Boyfriend will leave her because they just got this new place together but at the same time she can't stand to have horrible(for her) unsatisfying sex with him for a variety of reasons...but telling him…

I said she was lying to him. And that is a slippery slope. And he should either seek help for her or leave.

It might be her fault(and it is from the point of view we get, but it IS one-sided), but determining that she's a cheater and a shitty person is completely blaming her for something that may be out of her control(a mental illness).

Taken alone this comment sounds very sane and rational. If only you had led with this and not let the crazy sexist parts out to play.

OR she has a mental illness that prevents her from communicating the way a "normal" person would and feels trapped and at a loss for what to do with her relationship because it seems like no matter what she does she can't escape how big of a deal sex has become in their relationship.

I'm glad you're such an expert on psychology and sexuality. Thank you for teaching me the error of my ways. I only wish I could be so smart and well-versed.

My boobs are not even on this chart; they're about ~12 inches bigger than my ribcage. :(

JSYK VS staff know next to nothing about bras. Measure yourself and then check out something like Bratabase or r/ABraThatFits.

That's because DD is actually the average size nowdays. It's not "huge" unless you have a band size along the lines of 45. Your boobs are pretty average sized. I went from a 36DDD as VS would have me believe to an (American) 32I(that's a UK 32G because they're far less insane).

Please check out /ABraThatFits! It helped me SO much with my wide-spaced boobies and understand proper sizing and fit.

It does! I am a 34J if measured in American sizing (thankfully I can buy bras that fit, AKA ones from Europe, where I'm a much more manageable 34FF). People think "DD" is huge when in fact a vast majority of women would actually fit into a DD cup if their bands were fitted properly.

That's because 90% of "specialists" don't know shit and are there just to sell as many bras as possible. That's why I tell everyone to just check out r/ABraThatFits and their awesome guides before anything.

...bratabase?

Am I the only person who doesn't want to whip out the "yeah you didn't make me come" card after the first time? And suddenly she's being demonized for lying to him from the first time they had sex? WTF? A LOT of women lie about coming during sex, partially to protect themselves and partially to protect their partner,…

I really, really doubt she's "been lying to him since the first time they had sex" or is a "total liar". It's very possible the whole reason they had so much sex in the beginning was because she was trying to find a way to become compatible and she didn't want to freak him out at first because she could tell he…

SiS; Break up with her, help her get mental help, whatever you need to do, but for the love of god, stop making it sound like you're trying to force/manipulate her into having sex. Sometimes the worst thing a woman who doesn't want to have sex can experience is the constant pleading/begging/trading/manipulating into…