I broke up with a guy who had the warning signs too. Always criticizing me and then claiming it was just a joke, tried to separate me from friends and family, tried to police my wardrobe, got pissed one time when I was chatting with a phone surveyer about arts on television and grabbed the phone from me and threw it…

Really? REALLY? Didn't your mother teach you how to act? Wipe, flush, and wash your hands after you poop. Nobody here wants to see that.

Oh My God! It's still going on?

Or when I fly with a family member. I fit in the seat, but the corner of the bottom of the armrest is sharp and hurts my hip. I don't spill into the next seat if it's up, I just don't get jabbed the whole flight.

She doesn't need to be deified for it to be a crime that she was murdered. There are no perfect victims. All of us deserve protection under the law.

Mmm! Commenting so I can find this later! (Why can't I select text to copy on my phone!)

Yep. And then he describes those attitudes as "not racist." They aren't racist, see, it's just that interracial families make them vomit, that's all. Seriously?

That can be fixed.

I have felt unhappy with my weight, but I appreciate Zelda's comment. I am bucking the trend and loving my body the way it is in spite of a society full of ads and messages and workplace pressures telling me not to. Do you respond "You do you" to all the diet and weight loss surgery ads and advice you see? We're so…

I know 4 people who've had the surgery. One is still thin but says it was the worst decision of her life. She is miserable and in pain. One gained all the weight back. One had a total personality change and not for the better and her life is a mess. One is happy and has only gained some weight back.

Fantasy dialogue:
"Well in that case, I don't think I have any houses that will suit you."
"What, you only work in black neighborhoods?"
"No."
"What then?"
"All these neighborhoods have restrictions on line drying clothes. Where will you hang your white sheets and hoods?"

Some people say the group is their higher power. Or their higher self. Only the first step is about the higher power. I don't have personal experience to share, sorry, but that's what I've got. I know there are alternatives to AA but I think the difference is more trying to moderate drinking rather than a religious…

A very very funny old person maybe!

I think that is something different. Same as if you dressed as a black cat.

I think it's because you can't escape the context. And because it hurts real people and their feelings matter. If your friend has to explain his intent, it's too late.

It is problematic not to have sufficient means to fulfill one's vivid wishes and bold. Yes it is problematic not to know the tiny secrets of the happy pals that know the secrets to make the delightful sums of cash for rest and fun. You are right to assume the secrets are for knowing. Call now have your credit card…

I loved this!

Jus remember that there is a power structure invested in making you believe that we are fundamentally different. The very concept of race was codified at the same time as Europe began colonizing the rest of the world. The idea that races existed and could be ranked heirarchally was intended to justify the colonizers'…

Scientists cannot assign someone to a race based on analysis of their DNA. All black men are not bulky football players. Just like white men, black men come in all shapes and sizes. They have different skills. Just like white people. Diseases like sickle cell anemia are found in white people too. And all black people…

A fact: There is more genetic variation between individuals of any single race than there is between the average person of one race and the average person of another race.