Not only that, what the fuck does race have to do with it?

That’s modern academia for you. You can major in Game Boy if you know how to bullshit.

It this type of stuff that tells you some people have never actually interacted with anyone, ever.

I’ve read that paragraph several times now and it STILL doesn’t make a damn bit of sense to me.

So you think one consent at the beginning (or before) covers every act during sex? Wrong! And it fucking well is rape. He’s dosing her with drugs against her consent, impairing her ability to consent to what follows.

Hello? Anybody out there?

“I want to try the new cannabis lubes. Should I tell my girlfriend first or just do it?”

“Or maybe they’re both terrible people who deserve each other and neither is your responsibility.”

This hasn’t ended well.

It’s nowhere near 100%, but your comment/username dissonance is pretty high.

“looking for some comments”. Yes. That’s why I used to come here.

Yeah, this letter is definitely a weird one. I agree that the LW has probably been gaslit. If not, and presuming that the LW herself isn’t abusive, Dan’s right; her husband really has to take some responsibility for himself here. Breakups can be—and usually are—initiated unilaterally. The husband can leave any…

Hi, welcome to Savage Love, are you new around these parts?

No, Yugo first. This is Jalopnik right?

I hear so much about how our culture teaches young women that they’re not supposed to enjoy sex. But I’ve never seen that cultural narrative in my life. What I have seen again and again and again is a narrative in which straight women are supposed to love sex, and have a lot of it. But not with too many people - and…

Demisexual doesn’t make any sense. ‘Demi’, the prefix and the Greek root, means ‘half’. Wanting an emotional attachment before sex does not make one a ‘half’-sexual. If we must make up Greek names for things to feel smart, argosexual would be appropriate. ‘Argós’ is Greek for ‘slow’. Closest descriptor I could find…

I’m glad ISITON’s girl is aware of her own sexuality. I’m glad ISITON is respecting her wishes. If he wants sex and she doesn’t, that might mean the relationship won’t work. He’s holding out hope that one day the magic switch might flip over and he’ll be seen as a viable sexual partner. If he’s ok with waiting and…

More than that, it’s a pretty aggressive one.

And, ummm...I feel like this should be obvious...if he refuses to talk about sex with you than don’t sleep with him anymore, end of story.

I think this gives a pretty clear picture of who suggested the separation. Grabbing the condoms and storming out, unwilling to even discuss the topic, is a pretty unambiguous signal.