Everyone but her feels that I visit more frequently than they do. Her latest is that I will probably only have her another 10 years, but my husband will still be there.

I actually really appreciate this. It's actually comforting to look at it this way, because I don't want to vilify her. Sometimes she's been awesome and sometimes she's been bad or unable to do her best. But she's also able to be very kind and generous and she did a lot of heroic things at one point. So to separate…

Thank you for this. I have been distancing myself from my mother lately for various reasons and sometimes I feel like the worst person in the world because of it. My mother loves me and has been a good mother, but cannot accept that she does not come first in my life, firmly believes that I am still a child under her…

I have had soooo many cut it wet and be like but it's down to your waist and I'm like did you see me walk in? It's shoulder blade length at best when dry. Do not take off the amount I can see you want to take off.

My stylist is chatty. She asks me questions about my life and remembers key things and shares about her own life. But that's just her personality. I like it because now we are friends and she knows me well enough to know when I'm going to hate something and she suggests things she's pretty sure I will like.

I think raw tomatoes taste and feel like I am eating vomit. Cooked don’t bother me at all. I have quit requesting “no tomatoes” though because everyone acts like I’m an asshole. My intention was always to not waste food by ordering something I know is going to get thrown out, but the attitude I get for it made me…

I'm exaggerating slightly. He technically lived in the library and just chilled in the ceiling to avoid getting caught. We had a kitchen and tvs, Internet, couches, plenty of reading material. There was no shower, but he used the bathroom to shave and wash up in the sink. Someone caught him coming down from the…

Well, technically he probably just hid up there during closing time and then hung out in the library at night. It was kind of genius. There were tvs, computers, couches, a kitchen, bathrooms. He just had to chill in the ceiling until we we're gone. He miscalculated one night and someone caught him coming down from the…

I worked in a library in high school. This is not news. People often left pieces of clothing behind. Once a guy lived in the ceiling for an unknown amount of time. One couple used to regularly proposition the female pages for a threesome.

I always thought it looked like a line drawing of vagina.

Wearing a sheer shirt with no bra underneath does not count as a “wardrobe malfunction”. Get it together, E!

You have EVERY right to stop someone at any point during sex. I think this guy deserves a lot of credit for doing as you asked. Obviously, it’s exactly what he should do, but I’ve heard too many stories that ended with “but he didn’t stop” not to realize that a lot of guys don’t. I also think it’s asking a lot to…

I am not a fan and don’t really understand what the big deal is about Lilly Pulitzer, but I don’t think they are really any different from any other “aspirational” fashion. Which to be clear - I enjoyed the article and have no particular dog in this fight, I just don’t think there’s any difference between what they’re…

I need Heidi to give me a hair tutorial. That is what I wish my hair looked like. I am not even kidding. I would love to know her hair routine (if that is what her hair does naturally I might have to start looking into wigs.)

Catcalling when I was 11. And for context, I wasn’t interested in boys at all until my junior year of high school. I'm still not sure if that was just my natural pace or if I associated males with the gross dudes who wanted to tell an 11 year old she had a hot ass and great legs and what they thought I should do with…

It's worth trying. I usually only buy stuff second hand - Except bras, underwear, and shoes. I'm not too squicked about the bras I just don't often come across them in good condition. Thanks!

I thought about that; I was afraid I'd end up with something that was already stretched or something. Have you had good luck with it?

Me too! Gilbert Blythe was my first serious crush (book version, and mini-series version later). I passionately wanted him to be real.

Poor Rebel Alley.

My local Target carries either a-d or a few sizes starting at 38 and going through about 42 (mostly nursing bra). I don’t know if I’m just an uncommon size for my area or if it’s the most common and they sell out. I have the same problem at Walmart for some reason. I'll try online though and see if they have more…