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    Dude, dump him!

    Dude, I lost my virginity at 24 and the only person who knows is my current partner. No shame, but also NOBODY else's business, unless you want it to be. Information is power. You do you.

    Yeah, bring back the sign off!!!

    He only talks to you when HE wants to talk to you. Your needs are not being met. There have to be guys near you that are worth taking the time to get to know. You can't spend your life waiting for some guy thousands of miles away to decide he feels like responding to you. You deserve someone who cares about your

    Dude, Valentine's Day doesn't have to mean shit unless you want it to. So hang out with coworkers or stay in and order your favorite takeout. Just make yourself happy and tune out the rest of the noise.

    You mean the way that makes her feel tingly...down there. You know...down there.

    Yep. Mortal Kombat is known for the over-the-top violent finishing moves. Not sure why it is so much worse when it's two women fighting instead of two men.

    Sorry you're not feeling good. Depression sucks. Take care of yourself.

    Join things: a gym, a class (cooking, photography, etc.), a book club, a recreational sports league, a church, a choir, anything. Volunteer somewhere. Get a dog and go to the dog park. Become a regular at a bar or cafe and talk to the other regulars. Ask people at work to go to happy hour. Invite coworkers to a dinner

    I'm a big George Eliot fan:

    How old are you guys? Because jerking someone around like that is immature.

    I have a couple super gorgeous friends and one who's a big flirt, so I know what it's like to be the one in the group who gets ignored or only talked to as a way to get to the hottie. To me, going out was always more about having fun than meeting people and most of those guys who approached us weren't worth the

    He sounds weird and not in a cool way. Continue to ignore!

    Sorry you're hurting. Maybe you should just call it a break up, so you can mourn the loss of this person who must have meant something to you. Even if you ween't an official couple, you had a relationship and it is normal to miss that source of comfort. Lean on your friends/family and take care of yourself. Get some

    It's not just human beings that are brutal. Nature is harsh and we are part of the natural order. Survival of the fittest and all that.Our giant brains set us apart and drive us to seek out meaning through art, religion, and other cultural expressions.

    Recruitment is like a cross between a date and a job interview. You want to present your best self, but not be phony. Remember, you're not just trying to get people to like you; you want to make sure you like them to. Ask questions and just try to be relaxed and confident.

    I have one grandma who quit and one who didn't. I have a friend who was a social smoker who quit when she joined AA. Quitting is hard! Good luck!

    You are NOT a bitch, she is. She out her son abive your safety and the safety of your children. You cannot trust her judgment. Tell her to stop harassing you with letters. Document her behavior and consider getting a protection order from her too. Keep taking care of yourself and your kids. You're brave and strong.

    Ugh. That sucks. Flakes like this dude are why when I was dating I liked to move things into real life as soon as possible, so I wouldn't get attached to someone over email or text and then never meet up in real life. Obviously that wasn't possible in your case since he lived far away, but still no fun. I do not get

    She might not be ready to hear the truth about her dad and you are an easy target because you are there and she knows that you'll love her no matter what. I know that doesn't make her behavior any less hurtful. But you are a good mom and someday she will appreciate how much you support her.