It’s ok. Sometimes fun, most of the time boring. We have mostly run out of things to talk about. For me the hardest thing is never having privacy. My husband and I are pretty open people, so it’s odd for us to close doors unless we’re taking a poo. But now I feel so witnessed all the damn time. Like I can’t drop…

I have a slightly different take on that: If he doesn’t tell his wife—who clearly values honesty—about this, then she can’t make a choice as to whether or not being with him is right for her. And that’s the rub.

The main problem with the second approach? People tend to know when you’re lying.

You’re wife didn’t bring it up again because she wants to know more. She wants to know if you’re trustworthy, and she thinks more information will help her know for sure.

I’m not sure this article really tracks with what Politico was doing. To go public with a sexual assault case against a powerful individual requires one of two things: evidence, or a leap of faith on behalf of the public.

Honestly, the last time I went into a J. Crew (late last year - shopping with someone else), it looked like they were selling the exact same stuff they were selling when I was in high school or college.

This comments section is pissing me off, it’s like I’m reading the comments section of Fox News. And seeing people dig in their heels and double-down on their stupidity is even worse. Just when you think a crisis can bring people together some POC starts talking about an issue exclusive to them and, nope, people have…

I have already felt dread concern over what will happen if Quarantine is lifted on a Monday and I have to return to my office without getting my locs retwisted and lined-up. I cannot imagine how it is for essential-workers, especially those who have job mandates around standards of “neatness” that are hard to meet if…

Well fuck me I guess, I thought the article was interesting, even in the midst of this global disaster.

I did a reverse Becky/Karen today! O yes I did!

You do realize there are black women out there who are essential workers and are putting themselves at risk every single day as this pandemic carries on who still think about their hair, right?

Yeah, no, it’s not petty to think about black American women who do hair for a living and no longer can due to this crisis and will likely risk their health to do housecalls thanks to a lack of safety nets put in place in this country. It’s also not petty to consider what this pandemic cutting off black women’s access…

It’s not.

Haha I said the same thing. All those walls are going to be put right back up with the homeowners gushing about how cozy their home is now. 

Yes, amen and amen to that!

Open concept is bullshit. Here’s why.

I think the questions coming from Bernie BEFORE the general election could sway people AWAY from Biden is the problem. Bernie needs to realize he lost and get in line to help push Trump out. Is Biden great? Nope, but he’s a fuck ton better than Trump is, and I’ll take that any day of the week. Who gives a shit what…

What exactly has this got to do with the unions or unionisation or somehow a gotcha that Biden hates unions (a pro-Bernie routine I’ve seen a couple times in the last few days now)? Some dickhead decided to go full NRA and refreshingly (even if politically motivated) a politician actually told the bloody truth on the…

Any ideas for a house shoe that offers sneaker-like cushioning and support? I suppose I could just designate a pair of “house sneakers”. I work from home and do a lot of standing/walking laps when on conferences calls. 

I think they find him annoying but the fact that young attractive women find him attractive really pushes them over the edge. It’s actually kind of hilarious.