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This is how I see it as well. I understand how it can feel like salt in the wound for some, but documenting the disparity with real stories of part of what white privilege means is hugely important because the go-to response I've encountered at work/at thanksgiving/on Facebook/etc is "if Brown hadn't been XYZ, this

Honestly, how do you know you're proof that it works? You don't know what would happen in a parallel universe in which people didn't physically discipline you.

People mistake my under one year old baby for at least 6 months older because of height.

They're also putting kids too young to be vaccinated at risk. That's what makes me most furious.

"I'm a Portlander."

The duty to retreat is what people seem to be getting confused by in the comments. Maybe people are so accustomed to stories from stand your ground states that people don't realize that isn't standard.

You have no idea how important he was in Minnesota for the marriage amendment fight. There's a reason he was the Grand Marshal in last year's pride parade and it's not like his speaking out has helped his career. He did, however, help Minnesota become a better place for same sex couples to live.

When speaking out brings a high profile to someone in a traditionally homophobic career, you do so at great risk.

How to make beef stroganoff more delicious: make it venison stroganoff. I'm betraying my roots here, but every hunting season my uncles did well—life was good.

It's new. And not rated as about to collapse.

The rainbow flag is an intentional and long time symbol of the gay rights movement (please don't use the word "homosexual," it's a weird pathologizing of people — that is, unless you refer to straight friends as "heterosexuals," in which case...carry on).

Weren't the students he was harassing college students?

This guy is a lech and a creep and should have been fired long ago, but I am pleading with people who are comparing him to Sandusky to stop it.

I question the proclivities of anyone who sees sex in that license plate as opposed to a cannibalism joke.

@ShaunTKennedy: This has been on my mind lately because I was recently involved in hiring processes and - behind closed doors - two people said of our best candidate "she seems great, but someone young like her will probably have kids." To which I said: shut up and fucking hire her.

They didn't have much of a budget for that photo shoot.

@Zeratul010: I hate to be a dick, but that's not going to work. See the case study known as "Minnesota" - our dear Tim Pawlenty won both of his elections with less than 50% of the vote because left-of-center voters were all like "I'm going with a third party" in larger numbers than the right-of-center voters were.