Co-signed.

Yep, consigned. I'm 25 and have always avoided the sun and used makeup with SPF, but have forgotten to do my neck/chest. Sup décolleté damage? this message brought to you by having Irish parents.

""I like you, I think you're cute, and I'm doing this with the potential for a relationship in mind. If you don't see that potential, we can walk away from this now and nothing's changed." Everything's clear, minimal risk, you don't need to know for sure that you want a relationship, no one feels pressured or…

Oh my goodness, you sound exactly like me. This exact situation played out for me (again) about six weeks ago with a guy I thought I was pretty into. Once we slept together it was like HERE, LET ME HAND YOU THIS DUMPTRUCK LOAD OF INSECURITY CAUSED BY MY EX-GIRLFRIEND. At the time i was pretty horny and thought I was…

No, this is not normal. I know what it's like to not trust yourself when it comes to men, I am also a rape survivor. Your perceptions may be skewed, but a good therapist can help you address a lot of the underlying issues. I'm so sorry for what you've been through, but I truly believe you can heal, move forward from…

google search crop-share or food co-op for one in your area. Jezebel just did an article about them a few days ago. You pay per month or per week and get a load of fresh fruits and vegetables every week, sourced from local farms, usually. It's seriously the best.

Thanks for your reply. I love adventure time. I'm relaxing at tbe house right now, but I've promised myself an entire day tomorrow of nothing but resting- no chores, no running around, no nothing, aside from watching movies, reading, maybe some painting or journaling. Trying to instill this belief that it IS extremely…

Never tried IT but my fave veggies are asparagus, zucchini/squash of all kinds really, artichokes, and all sorts of peppers. (Mmm, poblanos.) also just got some ballin' heirloom tomatoes in my crop share basket. So yummy.

I'm having a really tough go right now. I just broke my lease at my apartment because both of my roommates got fired and did not seek work for 2 months. I'm living with my cousin right now, who luckily had a spare room, but I've got to find another place to live by August 1st.

Happy memorial day jezzies! I hope you've all had a fabulous day. I have been celebrating by day drinking Abita Purple Haze, watching Margaret Cho stand up, and now I'm making a yummy spinach and three cheese quiche! Good day.

The exact same thing happened to me tonight and I'm trying really really hard to not get overly pissed/disappointed. Watched four or five episodes of arrested and now I'm heading for a drink with a friend to shake it off. Treat yourself to something tonight: ice cream, bubble bath, etc. :)

Thank you, I appreciate that, and I'm sure the same will happen for you. It just takes time, and it can seem more difficult when you don't have tangible markers for your progress. You're doing great by seeing a therapist, period. Many many MANY Internet hugs. <3

Thank you so much. :)

So, something interesting has happened to me. I have been seeing a great therapist for over a year now. For the past several months we've worked on issues stemming from my sexual assault three years ago. All of a sudden, as we've made headway in this area, my libido has snapped back with a vengeance seemingly out of…

That is kind of strange for a first date. I usually only go shopping with people who know me very well. Did y'all hit it off in spite of this?

Am i to understood that you've tried to address this with them personally already? Are they pretty close friends of yours?

The Joy of Cooking. I first had my grandmother's 40 year old, very dog-eared and well loved copy. It's full of great staple recipes and gives thorough instruction for a variety of cooking methods.

You guys, I'm going on my first OkCupid date next weekend! I'm so excited! I've been messaging with this guy for about 2 weeks and we have really hit it off so far. He is driving up to my neck of the woods to check out a local music/art festival that will be going on in town, and meet me for a drink. Yay! I know it's…

Thank you so much for the support! I too, think we will both have a much better experience. Way to go, us!!! :)