Kentucky is one of the poorest states. There are women for whom simply paying for the procedure is too great a burden — never mind taking a few days to drive up to Cincy (assuming they can even get an appointment, since that clinic will be SLAMMED if Kentucky’s all closed), stay in a hotel during the damned “waiting…

I think the fantasies your gentleman friend describes are pretty common and don’t necessarily mean he’s a monster or whatever but definitely the sort of thing that need to be approached with a LOT of understanding about safety, boundaries and consent, which I get the impression didn’t happen in the moment when you…

If you ask him “Well, how would that work?” the answer that respects your well-being and safety would suggest safe words, starting with something small, and what your boundaries are. If he answers that it would be ‘when the moment is right’, when he wanted to, or something along that bent then there is a huge issue.

I’d be concerned that he just dove all the way in. A conscientious partner would test the waters a bit I think

I’m going to go in a different direction that the rest of your responses and say that this is fairly ‘normal’ (insofar as anything is normal). He is just expressing a fantasy. If he acted on any of these fantasies without discussion that would be seriously not okay, but discussing fantasies is fine.

Or at least work up to that shit.

Depends on who brought up the talk of fantasies. if him, may have been trying to lead to it. If you, then he’s being honest, but doesn’t mean he’d do it without prior consent/safewords.

I mean, that depends on you and what you like in the bedroom. I know women whose panties would’ve been flooded after reading that. I also know women that would never talk to him again after reading that. He should’ve figured that out before going there. The fact that he didn’t is a little concerning. Follow your…

What kind of heinous shit would a decent college football team have to do, for this to happen on the same scale?

“Stop a whole lane and force their way into the merging lane.”

Don’t even need xenophobia just the brown skin. Being a black man that grew a beard post 9/11 I was definitely asked if I was converting/was I Muslim/”jokes” about joining ISIS

If you need to have people break down for you into small words the difference between having a cop shoot someone and having regular people shoot someone and the difference in what happens on those occasions then you’re probably not qualified to have this conversation in the first place.

They’re not trained to treat black people as humans. They’re only trained to enforce and dominate, which is why they have a habit of handcuffing our bodies as we die.

If I pray anything about Stumler it’ll be that she never shoots another unarmed person.

“In the wake of yesterday’s shooting, I ask for the community to join me in prayer and compassion for Mr. Bruce Warrick and Officer Sarah Stumler and their families,”

My vote is you decline the invite. Showing up is normalizing this man and an administration that has deliberately disrespected HBCU students and their families.

How on earth does the paragraph you quoted have anything to do with the screed you wrote under it?? The author is literally saying that the party should be more populist and reach out to the common people, not rely on flashy celebrities. You seem to have completely misread it or have some weird ax to grind. You can…

Remember when gas/oil prices went up really high and flight prices skyrocketed because of it? And they crammed more seats on planes and charged us heavy fees for bags? Then fuel/oil prices dropped drastically and the flight prices never went down and fees never went away? Fuck everything about the airlines.

Please, let's not call this "rape." I'm sure that birth can sometimes be traumatic, but calling it "rape" does a real disservice to survivors.