Honestly, I have no idea why he was so insistent to see that movie. But now I forever have the association of "oh yeah, that's the movie where I got dumped late enough at night that the BART train was shut down and therefore had to stay the night on my now ex's couch."

There is nothing more fantastic than an idiot on a mission. I too am going to start arbitrarily changing the definition of words.

I saw this movie in the theatre with an ex who INSISTED we see it because "girls like these kinds of movies." He then dumped me that night at around 2:00am.

They were also, I believe, the first interracial dancing pair in film (though correct me if I'm wrong). Their scenes were often cut down or removed completely for southern audiences.

Yes. I have huge reservations about a mother who would publicly slander one of her own children (whatever happened with the Soon-Yi/Woody affair...I don't understand a mother who could do that). Woody's molestation accusations should absolutely be taken seriously, as all molestation accusations should.

I completely agree. I think what I've gathered from all of this is just how screwed up a situation it was for all the kids between the two of them.

I absolutely agree. It's not just that she is stunning (she TOTALLY is), but she has that intangible quality where your eyes are just drawn to her, you can't look away. She has something magnetic about her aside from her beauty, and you just can't help but become completely wrapped up in her.

I'm sorry. This has clearly struck a chord with you, and I am sorry that you feel that life isn't worth having. I was simply trying to relate my own experience with terrible things happening against my consent.

Tell you what. As a person who has been given life by two incredibly loving and wonderful people, is ecstatically pregnant with her first child, and has also been the victim of sexual assault in her life, I can tell you with absolute certainty: the two don't compare. Rape is a horrible, demeaning, violating crime…

Okay. Well, a lot of things are forced on a person without their consent. Everyday, we all have things happen that we had no say in whatsoever, that were "forced on us without our consent."

How? Please, explain to me. What is the connection between human conception and rape? I am really interested to see how you are making that connection, because it boggles the mind.

So human life as we know it should cease to exist?

Really? You're comparing being raped to being conceived?

Except EVERY PERSON ALIVE was created against their will. He drugged her, which in any other circumstance, with any other drug, would be punishable.

Possibly. But does that mean that it's okay to gain a person's trust, form a false friendship, just for your potential physical gratification, and then verbally abuse said "friend" once they don't get what they want?

"I was 'friendzoned' ALL the da*n time, usually by men who were attracted to my friends and wanted an introduction."

Geez. I'm so sorry. I have a friend who went through a similar experience, and I can't tell you how difficult it's been for her to trust any sort of friendship from a guy since.

I had a male friend who I was very close with. I never imagined that he had any interest, and besides I was seeing someone else. When he made his move and I told him that I wasn't attracted to him in that way, he proceeded to rip into me as a "fucking cunt slut who's nothing but a cock tease" who "led him on all…

Absolutely. I can hear Wayne saying it to Lara Flynn Boyle now...

Ejaculation Commander is my new band name, so thank you for that.