“There is a troll I want to go off on in the comments but I refuse to ungrey him engage him on a level playing field.”

Just about 20 years to the day that a grad student at my University published this in the SU newspaper:

I can’t believe he wanted to pay his bills and be able to eat.

So that’s a yes?

Even so, later that weekend, Arran proposed.

You’re a rapist, yes?

When was the last time an accountant wrote an article about having paralyzing flashbacks from sitting behind a desk in an air-conditioned office

Anyways, it was a shitty thing was OP to claim that her office job experience is in anyway similar to a woman who’s job left her with, seemingly, PTSD

Sex trade workers have to deal with a “stigma” and “discrimination”? You don’t say.

He has some sort of ‘a marriage licence is just a piece of paper’ stuff going on as well that doesn’t balance out the legal rights issue.

It doesn’t seem like he is against the idea, just doesn’t personally feel its necessary.

TL;DR: I was a sex worker, and am not fucked up because I was a sex worker... Now let me list out all the ways I am fucked up because I was a sex worker....

I can’t think of a many relationships that work out when one partner feels forced to do something to stay in the relationship.

Good ol’ British Columbia. The police in BC basically enforce public weed smoking laws about as forcefully as Las Vegas police enforce public drinking laws.

California conveniently enough has a statute of limitations that prevents that from happening.

So... your boyfriend got a boner watching Francis McDormand?

The feels talk that I really always hate is the one that starts with “are you mad?” That’s always the worst self-fulfilling prophesy. I might be thinking about something unrelated/stupid/whatever and my wife would ask that question. And “no” is never the correct answer, even if it is actually the truth (I apparently…

My dude has progressed from “my day was crappy” and sulking off to “my day was crappy because here is one sentence saying what happened” and sulking off. Baby steps?

That’s really offensive to people who have been abused.

Having your SO’s exes pop up all the time isn’t healthy if they’re still trying to exert some sort of control over the SO or are particularly flirty, nosy, judgmental, etc., which is something that has happened to me.