I wish they would show all 3 groups in the same episodes - the momentum dies otherwise. Also, this was the most dialogue Rosita's ever had. I honestly would like to see her backstory. What was she doing before meeting up with Abraham and Eugene? I know her comic book backstory and I'd like to see TWD show talk about…

So true. My friend's husband was hit on relentlessly by all these women that worked with him at a bookstore - quite blatantly. He always said no, but then he and my friend decided to be poly. Once he told the other women that he was partly available, NONE of them were interested. I think it was because they weren't…

Ditto. Cosmetics, mostly, which seems to draw a special brand of ire, even from people who spend 30 bucks on drinks each Saturday night, or my fellow nerds who drop at least 150 a month on toys, comics and graphic novels. People love judging anything seen as feminine and frivolous, though many of them drop just as…

See, that's how I feel about people who spend 4 bucks a day on lattes. It's gone - immediately. A 60 dollar bottle of foundation, on the other hand, lasts six months. To me, makeup gives way more bang for the buck than eating out, going out for drinks, magazines, movies, etc.

I don't get it either. The two criticisms I hear are that she had a bad live performance and that she comes from a privileged background. I just don't give a shit; I like most of her music and who she is personally doesn't affect that. And to me it's another instance of how female celebs are scrutinized ruthlessly,…

I've thought about making up a kid for my next job. My whole career, coworkers with kids constantly come in late and leave early because of the kid's doctor appointments, teacher conferences, etc. They can't work late and get to skip annoying client dinners because no babysitter. I don't blame them, but it's annoying…

Have you ever seen the footage from the Puerto Rican Day Parade attacks of 2000? Women were harassed, groped and in some cases stripped. Completely terrifying but it was framed as a few people out of control, rather than an expression of a dynamic women live with every day.

I don't understand why women were considered N/A for ejaculating on someone. I'm sure plenty of women fantasize about squirting on a partner.

"don't interrupt, don't object or disagree, and don't make the conversation about yourself. "

I hate chronically late people. I have a good friend who has been like this her entire life - it's like a bizarre form of entitlement where she seems to feel no one else's time is as important as hers. She's lost jobs and relationships over it. Nothing changes.

Asylum was set in 1964, so it's a bit of a stretch but not impossible. Maybe Mary Eunice will be a young social worker type who then becomes a nun? Who knows.

So excited my story was picked! But... "Look At Me" is the one that's going to stick in my memory for a long time.

Finn Wittrock is stealing the show this season. I loved him in Masters of Sex, and I love him in this. And I love that he could easily play pretty boy/hero roles, but is going for roles with more depth or difficulty.

There's a theory that the bear may have had a camera in it.

Down A Dark Hall was unforgettable. So atmospheric and seriously foreboding in a way most YA books today just can't achieve.

I can tell you this story - a pretty girl in the grade below me in high school had her head shaved by her mother over some romantic infraction. She was 15 at the time. Came to school looking completely demoralized and humiliated over her bald head. (No social media at the time - this was a while back.) My first year…

I don't see it used as a defining label as much as social shorthand. Friend I know from fetish club says she's having a party. I say "Party with work people and regular friends or kinkster party?" In that light, it's not limiting as much as convenient - I find out what kind of party to expect. But I've only seen it…

People always say that, but it's much more complicated. Just one example - there are many sub men who have trouble finding Dommes. They find one, try to please her, and find themselves denying their own wishes and needs and maybe going along with things they aren't that into, because they're so afraid of losing her.…

What's wrong with "kinkster?" A lot of people in the scene use it - it's just a handy way of referring to the people you see at play parties and fetish balls, people whose sex lives go off the beaten path. It's quicker than saying "people who practice kink or BDSM in their sex lives."

No, they were notes she had written. I found later she was writing a YA book about experiencing a past life in the Holocaust and had gotten overwhelmingly negative feedback on her draft to the tune of "this is just you trying to work something out." But the notes were just ramblings she had written, printed out and…