The best way to get things like this dealt with is to write to the tip line or the author of the post - they’ll need a link to the offensive post. I did this once when someone posted a long string of animal abuse photos that still haunt me, and while everyone flagging the images and whining about them in comments for…

Star this so it goes to the top pls. Do not scroll down; some asshat posted pictures of decapitated heads and mutilated corpses and some other asshat raised it out of the grays.

smh at all the people falling all over themselves to excuse him here. It IS privilege to be able to say these things and think that you’re just joking, she knows you’re just joking, why would anyone be offended, you’re just joking!! and then later forget about the whole thing....because you’re just joking, hey man it…

Exactly how I feel, but you said it better! What the heck is with all these folks thinking a gaslit “she’s misrembering” is anything close to a sincere apology?!

Not a sincere apology when you accuse someone of misrembering.

When someone says some of the most awful racist things you’ve ever heard in your life to you, making it one the worst days ever, you never, ever forget.

That was NOT a sincere apology. It was a gaslit apology. Accusing her of misrembering? Come ON.

You brought up Harvey Weinstein. You and you alone.

David Cross is a dick.

It’s one thing to say that you don’t remember shit. The true fuckery comes out when he says that she doesn’t remember the racist shit that was said to her.

Seriously! I mean holy shit your comment brought all the rats out of the basement

See, we’re supposed to “believe” mostly white women when they talk about the harassment and assaults they face, but an Asian woman talking about a racist incident? Nah.

He’s a douche, plain and simple. And his standup sucks.

Thank you. How do we “believe women” but only in specific cases where their spouse isn’t our woke bae of the moment. Amber Tamblyn has done some good stuff, but I 100% agree her “edgy” husband was/is possibly a racist (and sexist, honestly - his international women’s day joke reposting a Dan Bilzarian instagram shows…

He probably isn’t going to remember some offhanded comment he made upon meeting a new person. If it made her deeply uncomfortable, she’s probably going to remember it. Pretty simple.

You clearly read his statement coming from a radically different viewpoint than I did. Actually being on the receiving end of this kind of thing changes how seriously you take it.

Totally agree. Cross grew up in Roswell, GA. and suburb of ATL. His upbringing is not NYC or LA. I’m born and raised in the South and I can vividly remember school mates making these types of jokes like it was nothing. Shit, I had someone refer to another classmate as the N word in front of my face and not think a…

I have read comment after comment expressing the following:

Ok. So when can we expect a sincere apology from David Cross?

No, she’s right.