That’s exactly what twists the knife for me. He is not a fucking victim. He is the predator. Having your body violated is life ruining. Living with the pain of the attacks is life ruining. Having that pain belittled is life ruining. Not being appointed to the highest court in the country isn’t life ruining!!!!

I have so much rage in my heart right now, I can actually feel my chest constrict and I find myself choking. How long do we have to suffer in silence? How long do we have to stand by and watch abusive shitty people fail upwards in life, while we pick up the pieces of our own shattered lives? How long do we minimize…

I’m in the same boat as you, love. Sending you healing and love, know that you are believed by us.

Don’t forget the Good Son! He was so good in that.

He’s not a moron, by any means. He’s just an entitled white dude who has failed upwards his whole life. Beware the myth of the male bumbler.

He sexually assaulted two separate women, possibly 4. Fuck you and your bullshit hair splitting for defending a sexual predator. 

I’d go ahead and say Bill’s every bit the sexual predator Trump is. Juanita Broaddrick’s story about being raped by him has been consistent for decades. So has Kathleen Wiley. Paula Jones was lying because her account changed several times and her description of his penis did not match the actual (ugh, gross). Let’s…

Sigh, I absolutely hate having to do this, but this is actually not out of the ordinary for custom drapery for an entire home. People don’t understand that when you’re doing high end interior design, custom drapery get expensive very quickly. There’s the fabric for the drapes, the measure costs, the cost to design the…

I have been so piss drunk before that I woke up with a giant goose egg, concssion in the tub with the water running in the middle of the night, but even though I blacked out, I still managed to get home and inside my own apartment on my own, and I am not a large person. There’s much more to the story than they’re…

You’re not the only one. I have to shampoo my hair multiple times after using coconut oil in it because otherwise it’s a greasy mess. I’ve found black castor oil to be a much better conditioner, and it’s actually non-comedogenic and will leave your hair so silky soft. It’s also great for helping thicken up hair or…

Or...here’s a wild concept: just hire black models! The fucking lengths the fashion industry goes to in order to avoid hiring black women, JFC.

My sister is helping somewhat but I am her primary caretaker at the moment, and unfortunately, while I do have friends to lean on, it is mostly my burden to bear. We are almost to the end of her treatment, so I really appreciate your kindness. I just have to hang in there until she’s in remission. Thanks, love.

You’re welcome. And we do need reminders, again and again and again. Death claims all of us, and it doesn’t undo the harm we visit upon others. McCain absolutely has blood on his hands. 

Thanks, Husky.

Thanks, pal. We have one more week of radiation and two more chemo treatments to go, and she was just admitted to the ER with a fever, so she can use all the luck at the moment. And I’m with you on everything you said about McCain. 

May he find the peace he denied to others.

Well, when the standards are buried 6 feet under, I guess...

To the the person blaming the victims for their abuse at the hands of Kelly? FUCK YOU, you scum bag. Kelly walked TWICE with 2 video tapes. Not one, but 2. And both victims were identified, and one didn’t want to testify because her family was being threatened. You must be a real fucking piece of shit to try to put…

I agree. There are almost 20+ years of evidence that R Kelly is a fucking predator, look up any stories by Jim DeRogatis, Jamilah LeMieux, Mikki Kendall, and countless other black women who have been writing about him non stop. 

Look: cancer fucking sucks. My mom is currently undergoing treatment for stage 3 lung cancer, and I am doing everything I can to help support her as she fights back against this shitty disease. That said: I am sick and tired of this bullshit lionizing of John McCain simply because he has cancer. McCain may pay lip…