I usually park offsite and get shuttled in so I never deal with crazy parking. They had some of the better pre-check procedures and usually the security lines were not that long. Either way, I have to fly out next week and I am not interested in going on my trip now. I wish I could cancel it.

It is a shitshow right now. Folks on the tarmac, authorities trying to get everyone to shelter. I live here and FLL was one of the more pleasant airports to fly into and out of. I suspect that’s about to change for the worse for years to come.

Most folks don’t know they are too damaged to do anything before they do it. It’s likely that people from abusive homes aren’t taught self reflection and awareness. Hell, most folks with “normal” upbringings aren’t taught that either. It’s with growth and maturity of life experiences that usually teach that. There are…

It’s a hard decision for sure. A run-of-the-mill argument, doesn’t seem like something to call for. I don’t know everything that happened here though.

That’s great for you and your child. I’m not going to get into the back and forth with this. Not everyone does the same and the abuse that everyone experiences isn’t the same. Either way, for some it takes examples and being shown alternatives. That’s my point.

I cannot tell you how powerful alternate perspectives are here. I have a friend who had a horrible upbringing and she knew that there had to be better out there. Became a mom at 20 and was well on her way to being JUST.LIKE.HER.SHITTY.MOM. But...

I’ve never thought of myself as privileged (I am black in America, after all) but I came from a pretty good family. There was no way in hell they were gonna call the cops on us for arguments. It just wasn’t anything that was even thought of in our home. I wish that was the case for others as well. But, I had friends…

That was my initial thought as well. Either that or hopefully, he’s gotten some help.

Exactly. That part.

None of them. Not one.

Burn or read. Yes. Shade. No.

That is an excellent analogy.

Lol. They didn’t find his Grindr accounts or text messages either. I think that’s what made them conclude the way they did. But, still doesn’t mean much in the age of burner phones and such.

Again, I’m not saying he wasn’t living an undercover gay life. He very well could have been. I just remembered that the article provided some information about why that might not be the case.

Lol, that’s fair.

Pretty much. Short of spying one everyone and even then, it still can’t be stopped.

I was just stating that there was alternate theory out there about it. It looks like the FBI didn’t find much of anything on his phone and computer. Sure he could have had an alternate line or been good at erasing things. I could it see going either way, honestly. Him being a gay man looked like such a slam dunk at…

Oh, I’m not saying that he wasn’t gay. But, just saying I read something that kinda challenged it a bit but that story didn’t get much traction as the initial one.

For some reason, I remember reading an online article challenging that theory and saying he wasn’t actually gay. But, I cannot remember who wrote it and what the basis of their theory was so...yeah. I think I just won for the most pointless comment unless someone else read that same thing and can post it here.

Lol.