If an animal...say a tiger or bear, showed up on your front door, you'd shoot it because you'd believe you couldn't reason with it and you'd view it as a threat. This is how SOME white people view anyone who isn't white as well. It's an all too common thought from SOME white people. They don't see us (I'm black) as…

A rational argument for/against WHAT exactly...

See...this bothers me. I get that anyone can "educate themselves" on certain topics, but if someone else has the knowledge and the other person asks, WHY NOT say"hey...if you're interested start here?" It's not like she asked AuroraF to read the resources TO her. She just asked for resources.

If I were wearing an ill-fitting 9 just not to have to claim that I wear a "two-digit sized shoe" then I'd get the comment. But, my size is a 10. Not 11, not 12 or larger. And this article says some companies are seeing more women buy larger sizes ; which is cool. My comment is simply this. I'm not buying a size 11…

30. That' when my full IDGAF attitude came in and it was glorious. I'd dabbled in IDGAF territory on certain things but still hadn't fully resigned to apply that mantra to my entire life. Once I did? #glorious

I'm wear a size 10 shoe and I'm 5'7" (almost 5'8" but I round down...shrugs). The day I find a shoe I have to purchase in a size 11 is the day I DON'T buy that shoe. I fit comfortably into a size 10 so it's not like I'm wearing the wrong size. I just cannot go up a size. I don't care how cool, trendy or hip people try…

You just said what I was thinking a whole lot better than I did upthread. Basically, nothing shocks me anymore. So if there was some sinister plan at work regarding this, I wouldn't be surprised. If not...still not surprised. Either way, hundreds of people are dead and that's a tragedy.

I've lived long enough to know that if something seems off, it probably is. I'm not crazy at all. Just know that some things aren't totally chance in this fucked up world of ours. So I can see why people may think "conspiracy" in this case because people suck.

Agreed. Sure, he's used to being in a large crowd so I'm sure he's more comfy in that arena than, say...I would be, however, if/when someone grabs you - be it your genitals or your arm or whatever - it's instinctual to either pull away and run or attack to get away.

I think I'm the only one who wants them (Liv and Fitz) to get together in the end. I want Mellie to get her just due before then though. I'm not sure how both of these things happen so...I guess I'll have to continue watching.

Sure stress can interfere with ovulation but what the fuck does that have to do with rape since women get stressed about all kinds of stuff and still have their monthly period? I hate him. Like, really genuinely hate him. Ugh!

I don't think she was entitled for asking. She politely asked, based on the premise that other places had comped her so why NOT ask, and when he said I need pics, she said "no thank you." He assumed she just had pics of all 15 of these girls and that if not, then surely each of them had some social media for him to…

Exactly. Subjective. What if you're not photogenic (like me) and you look better in person than in pics? Then what? Are those girls waitlisted until they get to the door for inspection purposes? Smh. She handled that well because after the second time he came back after the gracious "no thanks" I probably would have…

I stopped drinking cow's milk when I suddenly developed the worst sinus infections of my life at 24. The first one felt like death was imminent and I actually called my mother and told her that if I didn't make it through the night, I loved her. She laughed and asked what was wrong and I told her that my head was…

And it's glorious. Lol

Lifetime had the "made for women" market cornered. Say what you will, but those damn movies were AMAZING back in the day (and I was young and didn't care what I watched so...The Betty Broderick story it was). The only thing Oxygen has is Snapped. They need to brand themselves around what works, and stop targeting…

I wholeheartedly agree with this sentiment but I don't know how in the world anyone could enforce this due to legal and ethical dilemmas. But, I do think that would be a hell of a way to stop folks from doing stuff without thinking.

Thank you. Her ass is fake. And this isn't a "hater" talking either. It's someone who has an ass and knows what real ass looks like. You can have a bigger behind and it can be a bit disproportionate but still be natural. Kim has PICTURES of what she used to look like pre-surgery and she didn't have much of a backside…

Vegas wedding...for sure.

Will. Not. Attend.