I get this hostility because I defended someone else's right to an opinion? Carry on then.

They didn't call him lazy. They said it 'seemed lazy.' And that is a valid opinion.

Agreed. And those magazines also are very clear that "being in shape" requires lifestyle sacrifices.

Yeah, and its no surprise that after 10 years and a couple kids they aren't having sex.

How come I didn't see anything about this here?

This was my thought too.

Justin Bieber doesn't count.

Yeah, totally agree. But I think age impacts women differently from men. A dude in his 30's or 40's (or even 50's) still has a pretty open field. I don't think that's the case for women.

He's suggesting that many men in society tend to place high value on the superficial qualities of age and beauty in women.

Yeah. Thanks for this.

This!

It might help if your ex was homeless too.

No one wants my music. Whoop whoop!

This is amazing.

Dude, I want you to know I agree 100%. But consider your audience here - just don't. They will not be receptive.

Well, it contributed to MY day.

Don't say that. You just set the bar really damn high is all.

My mistake. I misread your post to mean men who refer to taking care of their children as 'babysitting' were assholes.

Can you imagine? Like slimy hail. I don't know what would be worse.

More likely corporations will start profiling the men who are most likely to have kids - and refrain from hiring them too.