I dismissed another comment where he both compared me to a racist and used the n-word. Wise one, that guy.

Have the Trump fanatics conveniently forgotten about Marla Maples? I hope she doesn’t get dragged into this but Jesus — glass houses people.

I probably do. By criticizing something that some men do, I actually meant I want all men to die.

He’s the one who said, “hit me. Hit me! I want to know what pain feels like.” But now he won’t stop crying so I’m just going to collect my things and the thousand dollars from the nightstand and go. I put on some HGTV like I do for the dog before I leave the house so he’ll feel like he has company.

I absolutely will not. How dare you.

After five years at a former job, I pointed out that I was the one lady on a team of ~50 white engineering dudes, and that we had no POC. This had been glaring to me since I started, but absolutely shocked the people I worked with. Somehow, they had failed to notice this fact. Then they didn’t see why it was a…

Lately I have been hearing the mantra that identity politics are horrible. Not coincidentally, the mantra is coming from white men, and by identity politics, they mean pointing out the importance of diversity to the determent of white male exclusivity.

I feel like I will die of old age before a sufficient amount of white males speak out against misogyny.

Yeah, you can quite clearly see she is extremely uncomfortable and shaken, plus the way she phrases stuff seems to be done in a way to try and make sure he doesn’t read into it as her coming on to him.

Honestly, this is why the concept of an ally is so important. No, not the kind who do it to get a back pat. Not the kind speaking OVER the minority they supposedly stand with.

It’s especially hilarious when garbage people get whiny and defensive when people call their garbage out and say PCness is trying to silence them. No dude. No.

I dismiss pretty much anyone’s opinion as soon as I see the use of “PC”. I no longer have any interest in what that person has to say because it indicates to me that they care less about actual human beings than about not being able to say whatever they want without criticism.

It is awesome that she is speaking out on this when she knows she is going to get some disgusting MRAs trolling her. Also, he is fucking abhorrent and I hope he faces actual justice in the upcoming trial.

According to today’s NYT article, he targeted minorities. It will be interesting to see whether the other victims also had histories of mental illness. He’s a calculating predator of the worst kind and I hope the colleagues who rushed to defend him to the media will come forward now and apologize.

In my twenties, I was hospitalized with kidney stones and sedated for a procedure to try to remove them. I remember waking up briefly and feeling someone holding my foot against his crotch and rubbing it against his erection. I had no idea who it was, but I knew with absolute certainty that it happened.

Also... there’s more than one accuser. ALL of them had mental illness? Even if that is the case, it is certainly nEeEeEeEever the case that perps would prey on someone whose account might be discredited based on something like mental illness... certainly not.

Hello! Predators work REALLY HARD not to get caught and will find the right scenario to both get access to victims AND seem upstanding. The more unbelievable the victims, the better longer they can keep up their act. I’m thinking of Joe Paterno and those poor children he molested for YEARS.

It’s done to elicit sympathy or doubt. Reminds me of the Daniel Horzclaw (now deleted) story about how we should all feel sorry for the rapist because he didn’t make the NFL. So we should all assume this doctor is an upstanding, bitchin’ doctor because he had an awesome wedding and lives in a rich neighborhood? Um,…

I also took issue of the weird tone of throwing in that he had a nice wedding and moved to and upscale NJ suburb. I mean, how is that germaine to this story?

That is so creepy, now.