‘Remember: “No.” is a complete sentence.’ is probably the single best statement to come out of your columns here, and I tend to feel your columns are very, very rich in solid advice/perspective.

that we can technically be ‘broken up’, but we can’t tell anyone, or see anybody else.

She needs to take a break. A long ass break. Her brother is a pedo, she collaborated with another pedo, she dissed women for being provocactive/slutty in an interview then keeps dressing like a stripper, her music is uninspired and keeps harping on the same theme, she doesn’t grow as an artist. But yeah it’s some else’…

Nicki Minaj comes off as whiny and bitter. And that last tweet is about as believable as someone claiming that their account was hacked. For someone who is supposedly the queen, she is incredibly insecure about her position.

Her last tweet about how she was joking reads like the worst save attempt ever. So messy.

It’s not really that insane, if it’s about your kids. If he’s sober, he’ll get more custody, which is good for the kids (as long as he is indeed sober). Basically, it sounds like she’s doing him a favor. Or maybe that’s just how she wants it to sound? I dunno, but as it’s put here, that’s what I’m getting.

This makes creating generational wealth for Black people even harder. 

I like this explanation

I assumed everybody I saw on MTV circa 2000 were friends and got together on the weekends to see movies and get brunch.

At the very least, you’d assume they spent a couple minutes in the same TRL green room at some point, poking at the crudite platter.

Only thoughts and prayers.

Unquestionably this. Whatever their policy, he decided that he didn’t want her custom. 

What’s more disturbing to me (because racists gonna racist) is the other statements about how blacks get everything for free and how we now live in a world where people cut each other off (read: black people feel entitled to cut people off) and it never happened before. That speaks more to me about how well Trump and…

Fuck explaining ANY motherfucking thing to that cracker-ass motherfucking-ass motherfucking racist motherfucker. And fuck his insincere motherfucking-ass motherfucking apology. Hit that motherfucker in his POCKET. That’s the only thing these racist-ass motherfuckers understand. Fuck’em. I don’t have the vocab for…

It seems the consensus in these threads is that no one thinks this is gaslighting.

If you’re calling this gaslighting, I wonder if you actually know what gaslighting is?

which he estimates will cost less than $100 to replace.

Anthony Bourdain “gracefully” eating a “double-double, animal-style” burger at his favorite restaurant “a perfectly designed protein delivery system” The In-N-out.

At my job you never volunteer for anything, otherwise, soon, you’ll be doing 3 jobs and be getting paid the same.

Oh, that’s not so uncommon. 19 years ago in some “chatroom site” (keep in mind this was a different era) I chatted regularly with a few people there. Three I still am in touch with. One I’ve met a few times in person, great guy, and we try to meet over a beer whenever we’re in the same country. One lives in Russia but…