With all due respect, have you ever heard of a fucking joke?

Confession:

Or they're both adjectives that can be used to describe appearance and are rarely applied to men, which is and of itself is telling

Whoops, thanks for the correction, you're absolutely right.

What in the fuck?

Speaking as someone who has, once or twice, dated girls who had never dated girls before - and someone who was once the girl who never dated girls before - I think a large part of this issue can be solved by simply acting organically. Do you like the lady in question? Do you feel emotional as well as physical…

Exactly - and I've seen that trope re: the "adventuring bisexual" be bandied about by other bisexual people, as Seize states she is. It's almost, as though to be a "true" bisexual person, you need to bash on other people who are Not Bisexual Enough. And some lesbians can be really, really nasty about it as well - and…

Er, if you're referring to Catholicism as "liberal" please think again. There are liberal Catholics. Catholicism itself is pretty damn conservative outside of some Jesuit sects (and even though the current Pope has Jesuit ties I don't really see him using them actively atm.)

Exactly. It's centering your story over other people's experiences.

As a "gold star lesbian" (and that's an incredibly problematic and offensive term, which is why I put it in quotes - my butch-as-hell friend had sex with a boy once, and she's no "less lesbian" or "worse of a lesbian" than I am), I think the problem is that lankypanky is just dating shitty girls. I've dated bi women…

Oh, god, that's terrible. Queer hug!

***Prostitution HOO-uh.

Oof. I used to have major issues sleeping, but since the semester's started I've been out like Crocs and socks as soon as my head hits the pillow.

One - wow, how much of a dick do you need to be to think "oh yeah, I'll just sell my sticks of pee?" I love how they blatantly state "I don't care what you use it for." What a delightful way to try to halfheartedly cover your asses.

Thank you for your support. It's heartening to hear.

I'm not sure if I'm ungreyed there yet, but down the Groupthink rabbit hole I go!

Like... of COURSE I'm projecting my experience. It's what I have, dummy.

It is. I don't think that this is an all-bad thing, not at all. I don't fault Macklemore himself for his success (or any of the other straight artists who have written "gay anthems") compared to queer artists doing the same thing.

You may as well stop calling yourself an advocate, then. If we're asking you to "step back" in a discussion, it means you are silencing one of us or that you are doing something wrong, such as erasing trans* people or presenting homosexuality inaccurately.

That lesbian was completely ignored at the VMAs in every meaningful way. It wasn't about the queers. It was about look at this straight white male rapper standing with the queers, how brrrraaaaaave.