SERIOUSLY?

I would never sex at work because nothing is less sexy than fucking in a place where actual things need to be done. ...okay, maaaaybe after-hours. But during work hours, definitely not. It'd be murdering me thinking of ALL THE SHIT I'd have to get done after while pretending nothing ever even happened.

Assuming it wasn't a break-in or an unsolved/unprosecuted crime, I probably would - the Ol' Family Home is quite near the site of a BRUTAL family slaying, though not on it, and it doesn't bother me any - but any noise that went bump in the night would instantly freak me out.

I beg your pardon - what girl? Are you referring to my example referencing my much younger self?

God fucking luck once you lose the pendant, though.

Nope, same old Fishnets. I am SandyFishnets, FishnetsForever, the Burner FishnetsFriday, and FishnetsForgotHerBurnerCode. I finally got a real account.

I never understood the concept of a political lesbian...

The issue is that restricting their access to porn is simply not going to work and attempting to regulate the production hasn't done so well either.

Radfems in general - there's a particularly virulent one in the gray on this article somewhere - are not generally kind to any kind of queers, especially trans* people. Even the separatists seem to like claiming that lesbianism's a political statement and choice that just about amounts to asexuality, which makes me…

This. When I was a young queerling I didn't watch porn, but I DID do my fair share of staring at nude/nearly-nude stills of ladies, and that was pretty vital to my realizing "I do not like men. I do, however, like women. A lot."

+1000.

For the record: for WHOM is BDSM/powerplay/any other widely-recognized kink you can name not "sexual" or the product of "frustrated angry male pornographers"? I was a nonabused, non-exposed-to-porn fifteen year old lesbian fantasizing about tying the chick I had a crush on up.