Thank you. This post is so full of testosterone it’s infuriating. She said he couldn’t hold a conversation with her because of his gawking. That’s a huge red flag. If he’s ignoring her to check out other women that’s not acceptable.

Twitter hash tags are my main go to. But When I finish a Murakami book I dive into page 5 or more of google search results to get whatever I can get my hands on! 

Seriously. I doubt that she thought she was his girlfriend. Sounds like a very one sided relationship

Yeah the premise of their arguement is off. Devine’s character never had sex. The other versions of him didn’t but he skipped those 3 years each time he time traveled. There’d be nothing to tell. Also he did babble about time travel multiple times & they all thought he was crazy.

I agree but that got a little bleak toward the end. I set goals for myself last year and did it again this year. It’s a good time to decide what baby steps I want to start or continue taking since I have more time off work in December than the rest of the year. It gives me time to reflect. So while thr new year is an…

Dragon Age series - you can play as female or male and it’s influenced by fantasy

I guess this is good advice but it assumes that you know what you need to put away/declutter. I read Spark Joy because I received it in a subscription box, and it does help to have permission to let go of things you don’t want or need anymore. I especially had trouble getting rid of things people gave me as gifts but…

Speaking as someone who has indecisive friends - yes to setting the date, time & activity. If someone asks me to “hang out” I’ll probably say no. If you ask me to watch a movie or go to the beach I’ll be able to decide if it’s something I want to do or not. Also set a specific end Time. Nothing makes me more anxious…

Is “guys” falling out of use? I grew up in California and “guys” was used for mix gender and female only groups. As a woman I’m fine being addressed an “you guys” since it’s meant “people” and not referring specifically to men. I’ve tried to stop using it at work but it’s so ingrained as a colloquial term.

Except Kal Penn wanted to leave House so he could work for the Obama administration. So they wrote him out in a creative way. It was amicable.

I’m disappointed in the headline. While you used the word “may” 166 people is not enough data to draw any conclusions. That’s also an average of 265 images per person which seems really high.

Yeah, I find it distracting when I sit by other people as they want to chat about non-work related stuff. I love working from home. I schedule meetings with anyone I need to collaborate with using web conferencing software. We meet, collaborate, then get back to work.

I don’t get why it matters that LW2 hooked up with a guy one month into casually dating someone else? Because A&B are friends?

I read an interesting book a few years back, Pink and Blue by Jo B. Paoletti. It goes into the history of gendered children’s clothing. I highly recommend if you’re looking for a researched, academic take on this phenomena.

Thanks for this article. I don’t have reverse SAD but I’m very heat-sensitive and I don’t do well if it’s over 75 degrees. I lived in California for many years and so Cal was too hot for me. Portland Ore was great for a few years but as someone else mentioned, it’s been really hot here the past few summers. I bought…

It’s so bad I am considering moving. I won’t anytime soon, but I moved to PDX to get away from the heat & it caught up with me.

A great website to help you prepare is getraised.com. Good luck!

Bad advice to working for the weekend. First off, you should have negotiated better in the beginning - if not for higher salary, than for time off or better benefits (flexible hours, etc). Second - you won’t get a raise unless you ask. Sounds like you’ve done job market research and if people with your…

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Am I the only one who thinks the first guy should see a therapist? He seems to have issues with being a caregiver for his brother - his statement about leaving his parents to care for his brother until they die was really heavy. What happens if they need care when they get older? His whole letter reads as if he has…