Yes, thank you, dead on.

After years of abuse, your first thoughts aren't "Aw, but I really want everyone, including my abusers, to like me. This may make me unpopular...I dunno about this..."

It's more like "I FUCKING HATE YOU, I DON'T WANT YOU IN MY LIFE, YOU CAN'T TAKE A HINT, I HAVE TO BE AS BLUNT AND BRUTALLY…

Except so much of the abuse endured from a narcissist is that your voice is stomped out. You are silenced repeatedly, because their word is always the most important. It is healing and therapeutic to reclaim your voice, and at first, it can be raw and abrasive. Because of course it is— they haven't had the privilege…

I'm going to stop defending my choices to assholes and just start using the simple but brilliant sign off "because fuck you that's why."

White people names.

And aside from that, they'd be driving home drunk.

The desert ghost!!! AAAAAHhhhhh!

Boo, Clay Aiken, boo. Inappropriate by whose standard? The same assholes who kept you in the closet.

I've had patients legitimately hit on me — one immediately after her abortion, and another right after a pelvic exam.

Thank you, millions and billions.

Thank you, but I'm just doing my civic duty. Also, look at the wriggly hips...it's hypnotizing...

God love you for posting this. I come undone when he unbuttons that sexy jacket. Mmmmmmmmmm.... It's nerd sexy, not gross trying-to-be sexy. LOVE!!!

Oh, thank you! I needed that.

I have a (male) friend who has been helping another friend of his to leave her abusive husband. He told me, "she knows he's gonna beat her up. I can't believe she's so stupid that she stays." And I did not succeed in explaining that there's always a reason to doubt, that sometimes you do believe that no one else is…

While I'm not crazy about the music in the video (I hate it. I hate it, okay?), Hiddleston Dance-Time is a wonderful time. And it helps you forget that scene in Antichrist when she [redacted] his [redacted] but then starts to [redacted] until he [redacted], then decides to [redacted] her own [redacted]...*shudder*.
Enjo…

If you already start out with a low opinion of women then there's going to be a confirmation bias. You'll focus only on the negative and delude yourself into thinking that's all there is. Maybe there's even a masochistic part of you that's purposely avoiding seeing the positive because you find more comfort in…

Amen to that.
Might I add, he also may be the sort of guy who believes that women are shallow creatures who are lying when they claim things like "a good personality", "funny", "loves going to museums" and such are important qualities and are in reality just money hungry whoooorrreezzzzzzz.

80% of John Travolta's hair is black Sharpie, right?

Me too. "Off the Hook" is like "Substitute teacher desperately trying to be relatable" Barbie

This guy happens to be a part of my social circle. I'm very happy and very proud that if somebody I know was going to do something that went viral... that this is what it is.

Raped and stalked for 8 years, here. Male. This is awful but the actor is amazing, "Because I have to."