And of course none of this has anything to do with the fact that I spoke up about the sexual harassment.

I wish I had friends. Making friends is hard.

I like Clinique because my skin is sometimes a bit sensitive, and their stuff is great for sensitive skin.

I’ve heard a ton of raves about Korean BB creams, especially if other types of BB creams tend to be too dark or too orange for you. Worth checking out.

Have you tried samples of the snail stuff yet? I’ve tried a few different packets and ...the experience was pretty meh. Nothing dramatic happened and the feel was only okay. Just suggesting samples in case you haven't already and before you drop a significant amount of money on a product you might not like.

I still haven’t tried S Scandal - I was going to watch it this last week but didn’t have time. I’ve heard so many great things about it, and now i’m anticipating a quiet evening to watch it. I love KDramas.

Do you Jezzies believe in “the one”? Like the one person for another. Soul mate type thing. How do you know if you have met them? And if you meet the person you think you could spend your life with, how hard would you fight for it?

The only one I’ve tried was a BB Cream from Missha, and it was fine (especially for the price!) but the coverage was a little too thin for me. I much prefer Clinique for my very pale skin, but price-wise, Missha was pretty good vs drug store brands of a comparable price.

Missha is okay. To be honest, I’ve tried various Korean skincare brands, and comparing the ingredients...they seem to be pretty much the same. In the end, I think it all boils down to the scents that you like and the prices.

It seems like you’re not getting the advice you want, but you’re being told what you NEED to hear.

You seem pretty determined so I wish you luck but I don’t think you’d be here asking for advice if you didn’t have a feeling deep down that there’s trouble down the road. I hope that it works out for you.

There are so many unattached men out there who would happily do that with you. This one has a lot of baggage that will inevitably become yours - if it hasn’t already (look back at what you’ve written and think about how much energy you’re spending on making sure that his situation is under control).

Have you fully internalized that this story has no happy ending for you? Even in the best-case scenario, you get your heart broken. Are you ok with that?

Well, if you build them he will cum is a a sex and the city staple. So maybe get some real hilariously expensive sheets then comment on how “does everything I bring into this room have to have a flaw??”

True. My dearest friends live in other cities and sometimes phone calls are not enough. My best friend is visiting and I haven’t seen her in over 2 years. That is way too long.

GOD me too. I have like, one really close friend but she lives 90 minutes away now, family, and 2 friends from school. that’s it. no one to come round and sit on my couch and cry with me and laugh with me. zilch. nada. everyone in my street is lovely, but mid 50s. I’m 23. I’m so so lonely. I have my husband but I’m…

I really feel you! I’m 29 and it’s so difficult to connect with people (especially since I don’t have kids, and now most everyone my age seems to), and when you do, finding people who will actually stick to plans. So many plans made, so few follow-throughs. *sighs*

Making friends is hard. Is there a Meetup group in your area? I know people who do that to get friends. I’m afraid of strangers, so I can’t tell you how well they work, but it’s something? And I think some dating sites have a “looking for friends” option.

It sucks. I’m in the same situation, and it sucks. :(

yeah and its hard when everyone gets so busy, Iv lost some of my connectness with friends because of busy jobs/lives what not. I miss the days of just relaxing and chillin with your girlfriends watching stupid shows, and being ridiclous all day. Now its oh maybe I can schuedle a wine night with a friend once in a blue…

I understand this soo much. I had a few friends that I moved across the country from a few years ago and I just kind of never made new ones? There’s no one to really meet up with or call with a problem or anything....sigh. Hugs and commiseration.