I’m so sorry you were made to feel bad. There’s nothing wrong with you!! *hugs*

That’s the problem, though: you don’t really ‘choose’ your kink. Your brain just kind of goes, ooh, I like this! and it’s off to the races.

I think that’s perfectly logical and I have to say I’m in the same camp!

Simple answer: the human brain is weird.

Well I’ll ask my psychiatrist next time I see him, but this makes me pretty sure of what he’ll say about it.

I watch(ed) his stuff all the time. Don’t remember much “heaving in disgust”...none, actually. Go find anything he did with Stoya, actually - she loves it. That’s not what the issue is here.

I didn’t want to, but I was at this for hours last night and was really fed up. I was hoping this would finally get through to her, but nope, she’s still at it!

That’s very kind of you to say, thank you.

I dunno, honestly. I think there are people who are capable of enjoying the simulation of things without wanting to do, you know, the actual thing.

Eh, screw the consequences! That’s for future!you to deal with! Present!you deserves ALL the wine!

God, if I could fellate myself my life would be so much easier...

Wow, you really are a one-note instrument, huh?

I feel like I should have been drinking to deal with all these comments I’ve gotten. Stupid slow night.

I don’t disagree with any of that.

You and your wine and your rambling are adorable, and your comment has cheered me up tremendously. Thank you, sir or madam.

The bottom line is that your argument DOES make people feel bad and you don’t seem to care. It’s not up to you to judge or police or evaluate the mental health of anyone else. Just stop.

Because the human brain is a more complex thing than you or I or the smartest person in the world could ever understand. We don’t choose what happens in our heads, and if you don’t choose something, you shouldn’t be made to feel bad for thinking about it.

Does that mean I’m not entitled to them?

I haven’t watched that show in so long. Is it still good?