Or maybe you’re oppressing me by robbing me of my agency.

This is not, shall we say, theoretical for me.

You’re quite welcome.

I wondered how long this would take!

Things that are indefensible: rape.

And I see we’ve reached the point where you resort to all the fallacious arguments you can come up with. Good luck with that.

LOL chickie-pie.

Do you not understand how business works? If there’s a demand for something, someone will supply it.

I knew I should have dismissed that crap. I stand by what I said and will not be rephrasing anything.

Do you have any data on that? A quick Google search gives me this, which mentions multiple studies. I don’t claim to be an expert, but it sounds more like you want this to not be a thing.

No, let me be clear: it’s you. You, specifically, make no sense. I’ve had no problems addressing everyone else’s points.

Nope, you’re entirely within your rights - both as a human and as a feminist - to have things you’re uncomfortable with and to limit your sexual partners accordingly, because it’s a situation where you are directly affected.

This is making my brain hurt from lack of logic. Pass.

I was just so taken aback because this was a woman who, while I haven’t know her for very long, certainly didn’t seem like the type who wouldn’t already have a basic understanding of this stuff. I guess you never know.

And that’s an opinion you’re free to have. I don’t know if I share it, because thinking about and/or simulating a violent act aren’t the same thing as doing it (or even wanting to do it) but hey, each to his own.

Kink doesn’t always mean leather and nipple clamps.

Of course, I’m certainly not denying that rapists probably enjoy simulated rape. But the important part is that plenty of men and women enjoy simulated rape without ever engaging in (or wanting to engage in) actual rape, and that’s the part that matters.

This paradox just rippled a hole in the fabric of the space-time continuum!

Didn’t actually say - or imply - that.

It’s unfortunate that some women (or men) assume that, if their partner is a man, they’ll be down for anything kinky or violent. I’ve learned from my time on OKCupid (this scenario is one of the survey questions) that many men don’t feel comfortable playing out such a thing, and it pisses me off when a person of any…