we can’t just blithely accept the idea that all women have come to BDSM and rape fantasies in healthy, non-damaging ways

That’s great to hear. Glad you could help your friend with what they needed.

I like the cut of your jib.

Do you think people with ‘fucked up’ kinks don’t know they’re fucked up?

I get what you’re saying and I don’t necessarily disagree. Though I do feel like, well, someone has to do it? You know? This has definitely made me think more about whether men have the same right to fantasize about being the aggressor and simulate such a thing on screen - provided they never, ever act on it in…

I don’t disagree at all with what you’ve said. Using BDSM situations as an excuse for non-consensual behavior is a horrible thing. Rape is a horrible thing. But it worries me - even as someone who has no desire to engage in any BDSM-type behaviors myself - when people conflate what someone does - onscreen or off -…

I understand what you’re saying about the POV thing. But again, that doesn’t mean that any man engaging in such a performance is or would be an actual rapist. Nor do I think any such performances need to be portrayed as wrong or be shot so as to market to women for it to be acceptable for women with rape fantasies to…

Yeah, what he’s describing seriously scares me. If you’re a woman with a rape fantasy you have to sit down and have a serious discussion with your partner about how they can help you with your fantasy only to the extent they feel comfortable engaging in such play.

I just told someone - someone I respect - about this, and she came out with a variation of the ‘he doesn’t need to rape’ thing. D:

That detail made my stomach drop.

It’s naive not to think every man is a rapist? What?

Please, keep saying this. Say it over and over again until people get it. Sigh.

Lots of women have rape fantasies. Please remember that kink shaming is not okay, and neither acting in nor viewing videos simulating rape is an endorsement of actual rape.

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Good, now people can go back to eating rice *on the side*, the way God intended.

Nothing these girls do is truly voluntary.

:’(

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