I haven't seen her do it directly for a while, or I would have said something. I just hear about it from our mutual friend who she is good friends with. I will call her out in the future though, because I realise I should have done it in the past.

Oh my lordy, that sounds so uncomfortable! It's embarrassing for her really, but it's so frustrating to be in that situation! Said girl did something similar about 8 months into our relationship. It was her birthday and she looked at my boyfriend with puppydog eyes and said 'nobody bought me any pwesents'. My…

that's definitely some warning signs. You were wise to get out.

Hahaha, Olga Stanavitch! I love it.

Sorry to hear you had to go through it too. I wish those types of girls would just go and get some therapy for their man issues!

I know it would sound like a red flag to me too, if somebody else was in the situation. But he has dramatically reduced what he would invite her to, and has agreed with me on her behaviour. He only invites her to things that everyone else in our group would be invited to, and that she would know about - like his…

I'm sorry they haven't been nice. Why do people suck so much sometimes?!

yes, you're totally right - it definitely seems like the 'break the fidelity' challenge. Unfortunately our group has been together for 10 years so she doesn't seem to be losing interest. I thought her behaviour would improve once she had a boyfriend but that hasn't changed anything either. In one way, I almost want…

our friendship group all met at the same time and she formed a 'special bond' with my boyfriend from the first day. He was kind of her go-to guy if she needed to snuggle up to someone. Then when we started going out (2 years later) she acted strangely and wasn't supportive and I cooled off my friendship with her. He…

I am so so sorry that happened to you. She has no excuse, and what a dbag to cry and try and make it about her!

Thank you. Just one problem: my boyfriend still insists on inviting her to social occasions with our group.

you're right there!

I've cut her out of my things, but my boyfriend still invites her to social things involving our group. I don't think the group as a whole would agree with cutting her out, I'm more worried they'd choose her over me.

If it were up to me, she wouldn't be in our friendship group, but it's not my choice. I have distanced myself from her as much as possible, but she still gets invited to group social occasions and my boyfriend invites her to things involving our friendship group, like his birthday. I can see why, since he doesn't want…

Keeping my fingers crossed for you! Flat hunting is so difficult but well done!

I think it's on Netflix. It is the best teen movie ever.

I hope everyone is having a great evening. I have a question. I have a 'predatory' female friend in my friendship group, who gets all flirty and touchy feely with select guys in our group when their girlfriends aren't around. She's been like that with my boyfriend in the past before we were going out, and I'm always…

I think Ms Ryan was mistaken. Apparently it's a new scifi movie that I can't remember the name of, but not xmen.

As lots of other people said, better science writing, and especially less science articles where the author's own personal agenda is really obvious. Also, less depressing 'the world is a terrible place, look at what this person did' articles, and more 'look at what this awesome person does' ones (but obviously I don't…

It's clearly a poignant symbol of her being a hamster on its wheel, running and running and not getting anywhere. This song is very high brow, you know. People in schools will be writing essays about it 50 years from now.