You did the right thing. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to explain to some people the difference between race and culture in the Latino community, and how the majority of us identify with our culture before our race. I, for one, am mestiza but on the lighter side. I have never in my life been able to relate…

Nicole Arbour seems so pretentious. I’ve seen a few of her vids and comedian she is not. She’s just someone who rants about stuff in a whiny sarcastic voice. I do that every other day and I don’t see anyone calling me a fucking comedian.

OMG don’t you love with non-latinos try to tell you what you are and what you aren’t?

I think she may have had an eye lift. Even her eyelids look less hooded.

Man, she’s had so much work done. She’s gonna look awful by 30.

She’s a skinny blonde who used to be a cheerleader. I don’t think she’ll ever get a clue. :/

Geez, what an awful “comedic” rant. I’d like to think I have a decent sense of humor, especially when it comes to offensive shit, but this wasn’t funny at all. She shouldn’t disguise it as humor. Tell it like it is. You’re mad at fat people for being fat and you wanted to rant about it.

You are correct. Her natural hair color is a sandy/dirty blonde. But to the U.S., there’s NO way a Latina can be blonde with light eyes and skin! Whaaaaat!

Holy shit, are you from Los Angeles? I had a friend in high school who dated a supervisor when we were like 14 or 15 years old. She was an explorer, too. I thought it was weird back then, but also thought she was just mature enough for a relationship. Clearly, I was naive.

Everything offends. Everything triggers. This is today.

UGH! Don’t you hate that? I remember doing crunches everyday for two weeks once at 19 and I lost 10 pounds almost immediately. I totally regret not being more into exercise as a young adult, because I’m paying for it in my 30s.

Really? I thought your heart rate (aka how intense the workout was) determined your calorie burn?

Congrats on your progress!! That’s awesome <3

Ahh I see. Well, I’m glad she moved away from all that. It’s unrealistic and can make some women feel pretty shitty when they realize they’ll never be tiny. :(

Wow, you’re so active! Color me jealous. :D

I actually have no idea who that is. :(

Isn’t “toning” a kind of BS term, though?

There is not much muscle in my butt, I’ll tell you that much.

I have a smaller butt, too, and deadlifts/lunges/squats have really helped lift it in the last couple of months! It won’t ever be big and plump, though. I get really stabby when I see those stupid memes of women in thongs like, “she lifts.” Yeah well so do I and I don’t look like JLo. Give it a rest, right?!

Yeah, and what’s weirder is that I think sometimes abused people choose to go back to the destructive relationship because it’s somehow easier to deal with for them, since they know the patterns and the person already. It’s easier than meeting someone brand new and investing in another relationship for them. Rihanna…