Stuff I don’t want to hear anymore:

So, as a former “other woman” there’s a good way to act and a bad way (as is true of everything). I’ve had extended convos with the wife and even was Facebook friends with her (he found it and made her delete so now we just text—turns out he’s abusive! And no he didn’t display that behavior towards me, but I was not…

“Good hair” is just code for “white girl” hair. It doesn’t have anything to do with how it was styled on a particular day, it’s a comment on how white women’s natural hair is considered a societal beauty ideal over black women and their natural hair.

Black people, or people knowledgeable about black culture wouldn’t say that. Good hair is a loaded phrase. Especially considering that phrasing ___hair, don’t care exists. It’s frequently, ‘long hair don’t care,’ or ‘natural hair don’t care.’ Those would have been plausible, good hair don’t care is uncomfortable in…

Let’s leave Kim alone, or at least discuss the underlying issue rather than just gawking.

American Horror Story: Calabasas

I will never get over the sheer fact that this happened.

Yes, yes, and yes. From Serena to Nina Simone to the mothers of the fallen, to Zey and Amanda. Couldn’t get any Blacker if she swung a cape off her back, knelt down and and gave us a James Brown/Prince scream :)

Beyonce released an hour-ish long “visual album” which is essentially music videos making up a concept album, laced together with spoken word. The concept is most basically about betrayal and forgiveness in a relationship (personal - seemingly autobiographical) in the context of patriarchy and white supremacy…

This was a kiss of and a love letter to black women! Bless you Beyonce we needed this!

Paul Westerberg’s memories are incredible. Cyndi Lauper was crushed and kept saying how sweet he always was to her... I have heard the “don’t look at him or make eye contact, don’t speak to him...” stories for years. And while I’m sure there’s truth to them, I think it was probably mostly to avoid chaos. And, it’s…

My dad was the same way. Freddie Mercury and Prince for their sheer musicality.

I’ve never heard anyone who met him call Prince an asshole.

You're in pain too. I get it.

So Prince was a ridiculously talented musician, gave lots of money to various charities without making a big deal out of it, was a gorgeous human specimen and had a sense of humour about himself? The world needs more of that, not less. Life is unfair

6 girls planned to beat the shit out of their classmate. This wasn’t a sad accident. This was murder.

This is a sad, sad day for music and our culture. I am devastated, which is weird because I obviously didn’t know him. But, I did get to dance onstage with him at a show at Madison Square Garden once. He even took me by the hand and walked me to the front of the stage before handing me the mike to sing a line from…

2016 IS A HORRIBLE YEAR AND SHOULD FEEL BAD BECAUSE FUCK THIS SHIT. Bowie, Alan Rickman, Merle Haggard. FUCK THIS YEAR SO HARD.

AND EXPLAIN ITSELF. I’M NOT MAD. JUST DISAPPOINTED. AND MAD.

I NEED 2016 TO SIT THE FUCK DOWN