imagine how emotionally trying that would be after just being shot by a random hateful stranger for being at walmart at the wrong time?  i don’t blame them for not even wanting to see him at all.

nope, i didn’t specify a place.  how we manage mental health as a society needs to be overhauled in many places, including america, canada (where i live), the uk, france, and elsewhere.  but along with addressing mental health care and awareness america needs gun control.  that’s why you have the mass shootings and we…

i believe emotional intelligence should be part of the public school curriculum.  that would help identify dangers like this, and also a lot of abusive homes if kids are taught how to identify and talk about feelings in school, how to manage feelings, and how to empathise with others.  these problems would show up…

if you intervene young enough, research shows that it is possible to teach anti-social children and teens to follow the rules of society purely out of self-interest (not breaking the rules and going to jail is in their own best interest, after all) rather than through using empathy and the development of a conscience…

ODD, the precursor to ASPD, can be diagnosed in children and should be when children show violent anti-social behaviour.  it may be a sticky subject because people are afraid of “stigma” of diagnoses like that, but what is worse--potentially stigmatising a dangerous child, or dozens of murdered innocent people down…

there is no way he was suspended from school and taken off the bus by police for making a rape and kill list of his classmates and his parents weren’t notified.  that means they knew what kind of person their son was, and they obviously didn’t get him proper help.  it doesn’t sound like they were financially…

well, if society ever decides they actually want to learn how to prevent these kinds of mass murders, they’re going to have to overhaul the mental health care system and specifically how young burgeoning psychopaths are identified and treated. it’s the only way to get at the root of this issue with  toxic (mostly…

how young psychopaths are dealt with definitely needs to be overhauled along with the rest of mental health care in north america. that’s the only thing that’s going to make these sort of attacks stop happening. an intensive intervention program that begins in childhood when they are still as malleable as they will…

you can if you take them to a doctor when they threaten their classmates and get a diagnosis of ODD and then later when they are older ASPD, and you use the evidence of the threats against their classmates to have them sectioned until they are no longer a threat, which will probably be the rest of their lives because…

they knew what he did in high school (made a kill list of boys and rape list of girl classmates) and they didn’t have him locked up.  they definitely contributed with their denial that their son was a dangerous psychopath.

anyone who thinks you should be able to fuck your wife without any foreplay on the regular deserves to get cheated on and left.

yes, there are often domestic violence records that get turned up after the shooter is killed, that show many warnings that went ignored by lots of different people who could have intervened.

personally, you’ve seen these cases? or you just read about them on the news like the rest of us and heard the same denials that the parents and families give to the news when they come to ask why didn’t you stop this. i would venture that a large percentage of hte time, there are signs in the behaviour of these guys…

all this says is you know nothing about women’s sexuality, like at all.  you’re just making yourself look bad here. lol

i would tell you you are filth, but i have a feeling it’s something you already know, deep inside yourself.  i don’t envy you.

then you put them in a hospital until they are no longer a threat.  some people need treatment forced on them, for the safety of the rest of the community.

but sometimes their families can intervene and if they have shown signs of violence already in the home, or signs of possibly harming themselves, get them put somewhere where they can get treatment whether they like it or not, until they’re not a threat to anyone anymore.  there is some responsibility for the people…

you have to factor in though that many people in denial after a family member commits a shooting are of course going to protect themselves by saying they never saw it coming, when the reality is there were often signs there that were ignored for one reason or another until it was too late (look at elliot rodger, for…

not cater to them, find a way to have a mental health intervention (because a lot of them have intractable personality disorders like narcissism and need help forced on them because they won’t ask for it) that gets to them and defuses them somehow BEFORE they become violent. we need to find a way to identify these…

also one of my special interests is music and has been my whole life, and the way he talks about music i could really relate to.  another thing that made me wonder if he might be autistic.