it’s not impossible, but the chances for health problems increase with the age of the father.

he waited too long.  his sperm is aging too, just like women’s eggs do. 

but he isn’t really a good sperm donor at that age, sperm ages too just like eggs do, and there can be health and developmental consequences for the kids of older fathers.

plus there are things that can go wrong from aging sperm (having a child with autism is more likely with an older dad, for example--my dad is 10 years older than my mom was when i was born, and i’m autistic) just like with aging eggs, though guys like to think they can produce healthy children well into their senior…

don’t do that, don’t try to say that all autistic people are jerks who can’t comprehend human feelings. i’m on the sprectrum and i have a really good grasp of my own feelings and can empathise easily with others. if you can’t or don’t care to empathise with others you’re not autistic, you’re a psychopath.

she could have an STD now that’s dissolving her uterus or something and doesnt know she’s been put at risk.  fuck not telling her.

she needs to get tested for STDs now, so he has to tell her.

no, not acceptable, because she now needs to get herself tested for STDs and she doesn’t know that because he hasn’t told her he potentially exposed her to them.

he HAS to admit it to her though because she needs to know that she’s been potentially exposed to STDs.

she needs to know because she needs to get tested for STDs now to protect her own health, which he risked by fucking someone else and not telling her.

dr. nerdlove suggesting leaving without acknowledging the risk he took with his partner’s health is so fucked up.  i’m so disappointed i think i will stop reading his advice column.

i don’t understand how dr. nerdlove can advocate not telling your spouse that you exposed them to potentially contracting an STD.  forgetting everythign else about cheating, you are risking your partner’s health when you have sex outside the relationship.  no one ever talks about that and it makes me so mad.

LOL @ “make piece”

i’m greyed on here now too, have been for months.  i have no idea why, and no one would tell me when i emailed the writing staff about it.

it’s a box of mac and cheese

pineapple juice works too.  it doesn’t necessarily make it taste like pineapple, but it makes it a bit sweeter.

i swallowed a quarter once as a small child.  i don’t recommend it.  quarters have serated edges, and you feel them all the way down your esophagus.  not pleasant.

are you sure that’s her real account?  i’m hearing it’s a fake.  i want to be sure before i condemn any behaviour where it’s coming from.

now i want to watch romeo and juliette, just for his amazing performance.  i’ll just ignore leo, as i usually do.

um, we actually have black people as well as first nations people.  so no, they are not “our black people”.  yes there is racism in canada towards first nations people, but don’t word it like that and erase black canadians.