Right? I don't know what to do about it either! I know it shouldn't matter if TC MITS thinks I'm straight, but it's not The Common Man In The Streets I'm worried about — in a way, being able to pass for straight when I feel like it is a relief and a privilege I don't take lightly. But I miss the unspoken camaraderie,…
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Hah, there's a whole 'nother layer in the fact that I've spent my entire queer life exclusively dating and seeking out other femmes, but now am somehow engaged to this really sweet transguy and sometimes really have no idea how to do that. So while I love to be extra femme when we're out together, at the same time I…
Even now, it's still a constant struggle, trying to find some way to be feminine in a way that feels authentic, without constantly being overdressed, and while trying to do something that outs me to other queer women.
I lived with a tailless grey giant of a cat for a while (roommate's), and he has similar issues. He'd been hit by a car when he came into the shelter, though, so his hips are also a little boogered up. His stump doesn't wag much but his whole butt does, and sometimes when he gets too excited he just wiggles until he…
It's amazing how many times I have to remind people that they don't actually get to have any opinions about my face, no matter what I am or am not putting on it. "Oh, this lipstick looks garish? Good thing you're not the one wearing it!"
Wow. That's a really cool compromise and I hope you always feel confident in your beautiful natural face. Honestly, I can't think of a time when I really loved mine (which, I know, issues), and when I finally perfected a couple of everyday "looks" it helped my confidence and self esteem levels immensely.
I'm not trying to derail here but I'm gonna be honest: I almost never leave the house without some makeup on. I am not really pleased with the look of my face without it (though I feel like everybody else can pull it off just fine, and rock it), I am good enough with the glitter and lipstick to be proud of what I come…
I'll admit it: I am completely jealous of people who look (and more importantly, feel) beautiful and confident without makeup. I am definitely not one of them.
Right? I mean, I want to go on a field trip and I want to protest some shit, but not *that* badly. (I do feel horribly betrayed, though, if mostly by my body for FUCKING CRAVING JELLY BELLYS NOW.)
This is late as balls but <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3.
I've also had the most fun in life with my own head shaved (am lady, otherwise very pinup-styled femme). I wish I'd done it sooner. Buzzers for everyone!
My fiance got this haircut and debuted it while I was in the shower. I laughed so hard I fell down and destroyed the shower curtain. Poor kid.
I've actually always wanted this but never known what words to use to ask for it. Now I've been going full brazilian for so long that my once-vibrant bush grows in patchy and weird. Ugh, problems that aren't problems.
This is the best possible response to this article. Thank you.
Aw, man. What about for a vegetarian who just doesn't eat meat because I don't like how it tastes? Now I've got all these health dramas AND I don't even get to be self-righteous about anything. Bummer.
A couple years ago she was in a Coca-Cola commercial/song campaign. I love her willingness to play both sides — oh, and that she is just fucking amazing.
I've read that! You're right, it is very good, and a favorite for me to recommend as well. I probably should have been more clear — when I said "read up" in the previous comment I meant to read up on the Trans 100 awarding process before I got too rumpled about it. One of my backgrounds is actually in Gender Studies —…
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