Just because you give someone the keys to your car to drive for a specified amount of time (called borrowing) doesn’t give them the right to never return it to you. If I handed someone my keys because they really wanted to take it for a spin around the block but then never came back, I would call the cops, because…

You allow your children to be handled by the same organization that allowed your mother to be beaten and broken? Man, Catholic brainwashing is still as strong as ever.