If she goes to college.

OK, you know what, here's some "real talk" for all the people who want to weigh in on weddings and how yours costs too much.

"Sex is extremely important to me in a relationship and I legit vomit in my mouth when I think about getting boned by a fat dude. That's fucking gross."

I've posted on this subject before, and I'll quickly recap my experiences:

I've been doing the online dating thing for almost 10 years. I have been on quite a few different sites and could probably write a best selling novel about all my adventures. If you are wondering what the heck is wrong with me that I can't find a man after all that time...I haven't been looking for a committed…

I struggled with a PoF profile tagline, and could only come up with a lame "Hi, everybody!" So the first line of my write-up was, "If you saw the tagline and thought, 'Hi, Dr. Nick!' we're going to get along just fine." It's been 3.5 years of living-in-sin bliss since I got the reply, "Inflammable means flammable?"

I'm thin (super thin) and I immediately dismiss guys that put "no fat chicks" or "won't date someone who is overweight" in their profiles. It tells me up front that the guy is a) deeply insecure and b) a shallow prick. Who the hell wants to be with someone like that?

That's true.

This. God, it's so disappointing because I am brutally honest about my need to travel and my desire to travel. I have to be open to these things for work and I can't imagine dating someone who wasn't. And yeah, I put "I'm a city girl stuck in a small town. If you like adventures outside of x town, please message…

Maybe some people are in denial about how much weight they've gained since their last decent photos were taken.

For people who lie about obvious characteristics (age, height, weight, occupation, income, etc.), I'll grant you that. But it's more complicated than that with everything else.

The theory is that they're so wonderful and charming that you won't care about the extra 15 years or 100 pounds or the 3 kids they didn't mention or the wife they're not even separated from yet.

I'm not saying that being a black woman makes you completely undateable. It's just that, in my experience, one's inbox overfloweth not.

I've been involved in online dating both from the user side and the content side, the upshot being that I've seen a LOT of profiles.

Agreed!

I completely and wholeheartedly agree with everything you put in this post. I too tired of dating men in "real life," as if meeting in a bar half-soused is by any measure more "real" than not- but whatever. I threw all of my fucks to the wind and decided to go the honest route too. Honest description of my weight (on…