I brought it up with my boyfriend sometime around the time he told me he loved me (about 2.5 months in). I said something like "so, I'm not, like, planning the wedding or anything, but I think we've got a good thing going so we should rule out any potential dealbreakers. All of this is to say - are you open to the…

To be completely honest, I had amazing luck this go 'round. Not so in the past. But this time I met someone a week into it and I knew that was it. He was shy and it took several dates to bring him out of his shell, but yeah, we're great together. I think it's just a crapshoot. Although I did point out in another post…

The point though is she's being herself. Take it or leave it. I'd rather know what quirks someone has up front than to have them make smooth moves.

Except that you can be overweight and fit and active. Those things aren't mutually exclusive. I am VERY active, bike and hike and kayak and jog, and I'm overweight. So pretending your interest in a skinny body has to do with "fitness" is just silly. Body preferences are ok. But don't mask it under a concern that you…

I met my boyfriend online, and I specifically did a search for guys who were 5'8" and under because I'd read that guys shorter than that get no love. Since I don't have any issues whatsoever about height, I figured that was a good place to start - improved my odds. I saw someone funny and quirky who had traveled to a…

I met my boyfriend online, and I specifically did a search for guys who were 5'8" and under because I'd read that guys shorter than that get no love. Since I don't have any issues whatsoever about height, I figured that was a good place to start - improved my odds. I saw someone funny and quirky who had traveled to a…