I'd be afraid to take the lid off in case the smell escaped and disappeared.

i appreciate that but it’s 17.50 for a 6 oz candle... that’s actually MORE expensive than yankee

Shout out to all my fellow Jezzies who read “inexpensive Yankee candles” and thought about how you only get Yankee candles when they're on the clearance endcap at TJ Maxx.

If I bought a $65 candle, I would never burn it. It would just be a decoration. I even consider the candles I get from Home Goods decorations.

When the girl who burglarized me went for sentancing, her mom actually requested a delay for her jail time so they could take a trip to Florida because it was a stressful time for the family.

How wealthy were his parents, out of curiosity? Like McMansion-rich, or Swiss bank account rich? What is the cut-off for wealth to become afflicted with “affluenzia”?

I honestly don’t know if this is a joke or an actual piece of gossip.

Kendall is with Scott. They were sofa shopping at Restoration Hardware last week.

I get it. Breaking Bad really doesn’t get interesting until the 2nd season anyway. Also, I could NOT get into Mad Men. I tried. I’ve watched probably about 75% of the first season and I just...could. not. get into it. And I love 60s fashion! But yeah, its slow as fuck.

Aww! My tortiseshell cat LUUVVVVSSSS my boyfriend and he loves her. When we stopped off at the humane society branch at the mall (they have a storefront where they have some cats) There was a very talkative tortie there and he later told me he was tempted to get another cat. I’m sure we will when the time is right.

My boyfriend is the same way with me and cats. I keep getting urges to get another cat, even though my two cats are BFF’s and I don’t want to disturb thier BFF-hood. He’ll remind me that they’re BFFs but he’ll go along with it once I’m really sure that it’s what I want to do. Lately he’s been getting cat urges too so…

Recently my spouse said he ‘let me’ do something, and my response was to laugh straight in his face. I dunno. We’ve been together 7 years and it wasn’t anything he’s said before, so I guess he’s fallen prey to this, too.

This whole “let” thing is ridiculous. I had a boyfriend who wanted me to get permission to get a haircut and just to spite him I hot a pixie cut without telling him first (I know, I know, why was I in that relationship). It’s your life/body/decision. I understand negotiating things that will impact both parties, but…

I could see myself saying my husband let me do something major to our house. We disagree on a lot of style designs but most of the time he comes around and ends up really liking what I choose, which he admits. I think using let in the context of some shared responsibility, it’s can be more like relinquishing their…

It’s creepy and weird. I get a lot of “are you going to let him” from some of lovey’s friends. And it drives me crazy. He can make his own decisions. I can make mine. We take each other into account but nobody is in charge.

Letting someone do something implies control and power. Talking to your partner about what you are doing to make sure they are okay with it is having respect.

Nailed it. I used to say this regularly. Should not have been married to him.

ACK! I knew it was going to happen, all my friends knew it was going to happen. But the sweet jerk I used to “date” and I slept together today. And I had forgotten how perfect he is for me physically. Also that we don’t care about being sweet and caring towards each other. I am past where I am going to get…

It makes me queasy. It’s the way that someone refers to their relationship as a power situation that bothers me. Yes, you can talk to your partner about doing something and making sure they are okay with it, but referring to it as being “allowed to” or that they “let” you do something makes me wonder what the makeup…

I’m a grown ass adult, my boyfriend is not my dad, I’m not “asking” him if I can do shit. Nope nope nope.